Couple at Odds After Husband Refuses to Let Wife Ground His Son
A man shared that his wife tried to ground his son, and he had to set a boundary with her
The son went to the gym instead of tidying up the house as asked
The wife insisted her husband undermined her parenting decision, but the internet sided with the posterA man got into a big fight with his wife after she tried to ground his son for not doing what she asked, when she asked.
In a Reddit post, the man explained that he has a 17-year-old son from a previous relationship, as well as three sons with his wife, who "are all much younger" than his eldest.
"My son is starting his senior year of high school next year and hoping to get an athletic scholarship," the man explained, noting that the teen "plans to spend all summer practicing" as "he's trying to achieve something that can make or break his future."
One day, his wife asked the teenager "to tidy up the living room," but he said he was "already on the way to the gym."
'She told him that he could go after tidying. He said he would do it when he got back and left without giving her time to reply,' the dad wrote. 'She sent him a text saying he is grounded and then called me to let me know.'
His wife insisted that the aspiring athlete disrespected her, and the poster told her that they "would have a conversation about that, but there would be no grounding."
'She was very upset. I texted my son that he wasn't grounded, but that we wanted to talk to him when he came home," the man shared.
"When he got back we sat down and talked. He said he didn't mind helping out, but that he was a busy person with a busy schedule and wasn't at our beck and call," the poster continued. "He said if he is asked in advance to do something he will, but he isn't available to us at the drop of a hat.'
While the poster "said that was fine," his wife "didn't like that."
"I asked him if he would be willing to clean the living room, and he said he would after taking a shower. While he was in the shower my wife and I got into a big fight,' the man shared.
'She said I undermined her and all the kids will respect her less. I said she isn't my oldest's mother and the final say goes to me with him. She was very angry and said she needed space from me.'
He noted that his eldest has always respected his wife, but thinks "it's fair that we stay consistent with her not being his mom."
The couple barely spoke in the following days, leading the dad to question if he was in the wrong.
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While people in the comments section had mixed reactions, most agreed that the dad is allowed to set a boundary when it comes to parenting his son.
However, the vast majority of commenters also noted that the couple needs to set firm guidelines about their respective roles as parents.
'You and your wife need to discuss rules for your son and appropriate discipline. She should not be grounding him without discussing it with you; you should not be negating her punishment without reaching an agreement with her," one user wrote. "The two of you need to find a common parenting strategy and stick with it."
'These discussions need to take place in private, where your son cannot hear," they continued. "The rules need to be explained carefully to him. He doesn't have to like them, but he has to know what they are. Ad hoc disciplines should be avoided.'
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