Greenville County Sheriff's Office welcomes newest K-9
GREENVILLE COUNTY, S.C. (WSPA) — There's a new four-legged friend working at the Greenville County Sheriff's Office.
Meet K-9 East, the 19-month-old German Shepherd. He's named after Major Mike East, who recently passed away after 46 years of service in May.
K-9 East has started his training to serve as a patrol dog to help keep the community safe.
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Even some of the best dudes I know never considered what it means to be a parent. They just thought of it as playing catch with their boys and/or accompanying their girls to a daddy-daughter dance once a year. And yes, even the most 'feminist,' kind men had these gender roles in their heads before actually raising kids who may or may not be into things that align with typical gender roles." —u/cometmom 4."I think for couples who want kids, there is an extremely different layer of fear for women than there is for men. You worry about your body and whether the man you chose is actually going to follow through on any promises he made. You also worry about things like work and losing your identity. It's just a lot sometimes." —u/FriendlyBranch3035 5."I kept track of all my, my boyfriend's and our dog's doctor appointments. I kept track of our dog's medical records, filed the pet license, and found a daycare, training classes, and medical specialists. I remembered birthdays and events for our friends, my family, and his family; purchased gifts, wrapped them, and bought cards that he would just sign; planned vacations and weekends; budgeted; made restaurant reservations (even for my own birthday); paid the majority of bills; bought all necessary household items, from furniture to toilet paper. The list goes on. The only time we ever ran out was when he convinced me we already had toilet paper and toothpaste at home. When he cheated and broke up with me, he complained he had to buy everything from towels to hangers, meanwhile, I had to replace a router. Everything else I paid for. Being single is hard at times, but it's more peaceful than being responsible for an adult who did nothing to lighten the burden." "The one time he was in charge of us going to his friend's wedding, we left late and had to stop on the way to get a card. He then suddenly remembered he needed a gift and realized there was no time to get one. He also couldn't find the address of the venue, and we arrived after the ceremony ended. The bride and groom stopped speaking to him for a while because they were pissed he was so late. When it came to my friend's weddings, we were there on time, gift wrapped and card signed, with reservations for a nearby hotel made months earlier, as well as breakfast plans the day after." —u/itsbeenanhour 6."Having to be the manager of the household. Grown men should not need to be told when to empty the dishwasher, or do laundry, or cook dinner. They shouldn't need a list, reminders, or management. The women in their lives should not have to 'ask for help.' If she's able to work out that the dishwasher is finished, so it should be emptied, he can work it out, too. Women aren't better at this stuff naturally — they just get on with it." —u/strawbebbymilkshake 7."Men put a lot of effort into making us think they're just bumbling fools who don't know any better to trick or force us into doing it. 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Growing up, Wolfe would watch her baby brother before school when she was 11 (he even started calling her 'second mom'), go grocery shopping for the family and handle any emergencies that cropped up. 'When I was in high school, and my mother had a health crisis, my father called me from the hospital, crying, telling me they didn't know if my mother was going to make it and that he needed me to take care of the kids until the doctors could figure out what was wrong,' Wolfe said. She did what she always did and stepped up, taking care of everything until her mother could come home. She recalls her dad insisting she didn't tell the other kids how bad it was. 'He wanted to protect them, but that same thought wasn't extended to me,' she said. 'I am sometimes haunted by that memory because no one thought about how young I still was and how much I needed protection, too.' In adulthood, she became the peacemaker of the family, the go-between when family members were in conflict. 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She notices the same tendencies among her clients who are older siblings: They'll overextend themselves with younger siblings, too ― lending money they may not have, grabbing the bill when out for dinners and overspending on gifts. 'As the oldest, typically we don't want our siblings to witness or go through financial hardship and money scarcity like we did, so I find that a lot of those clients spend money each month to buy their siblings things,' she said. Mander has started to use the phrase 'good daughter trauma' to describe the innate desire to use money as a tool to people please and ensure others around you are taken care of financially. After a while, your family comes to expect that. When older siblings act differently, saying no or prioritizing their own needs, it shocks the family system. 'If we spend money on ourselves or prioritize ourselves first, we are labeled selfish or 'cheap,'' she said. 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Practice letting others take the lead, even if it would be easier to address yourself rather than wait for them to do it. At 69, Schuitemaker said she still has to remind herself that her siblings and younger family members can care for themselves. 'Let others organize the family outing, or don't automatically take all the care of your elderly parents on your shoulders,' she said. 'It's not easy, but you will also be pleasantly surprised by what others are able to handle.' Setting boundaries is a great place to start, but it's not just boundaries with others that we need to work on, Gal said; it's boundaries with ourselves, too. 'It's not easy to change years of habits and actions, so we must first start with getting comfortable with saying no to ourselves before we do so with others,' she said. Try to identify your needs within the family: Do you care whether or not you're hosting the holidays or cooking a three-course dinner for someone's birthday? If you don't want to, practice identifying that within yourself first. 'Once that has been set, you are ready to suggest someone else's house for this year's gathering,' Gal said. 'You don't have to make huge leaps; simply start with something small and make your way towards the bigger boundaries.' If you've shouldered financial responsibilities in the past, recognize that it's OK to ask for help and be vulnerable yourself, Mander said. 'You don't have to do this alone,' she said. 'Depending on your situation and how old your siblings are, find a way to split and even out the financial responsibilities you carry with them.' Always make sure to put money aside into your own savings account(s) first or debt repayment before lending or spending money on others, she added. 'What I find is with my clients because they don't have financial clarity, they spend and give money away because they 'go with the flow' and don't know if they can truly afford to support others,' she said. 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