The sex position & tips that will keep you cool whilst you're getting heated
WITH the temperatures climbing this week, it's no surprise if you're feeling a bit hot and bothered at home.
Sure, cracking open the windows and cranking up the fans can help, but let's be honest - it might also have you scooting as far away from your partner as humanly possible.
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And the last thing on your mind is getting heated in the sheets.
But sexpert Annabelle Knight believes the hot weather shouldn't be affecting your sex life.
She says: 'With another sizzling spell of sunshine heading our way, it's not just our factor fifty that'll be working overtime.
'When temperatures rise, so can passion, but getting steamy when there's soaring temperatures can be more sticky than sexy.
'But, you don't need to sacrifice pleasure just because the sun's out.
'With the right positions, props, and a bit of creativity, you can stay cool while still getting hot and heavy…'
Here, she tells YASMIN HARISHA her top eight sex positions that'll save you from being a sweltering mess at home.
The Lazy Spoon
This is a super sensual low-effort, side-by-side position.
It's ideal for conserving energy…as the receiving partner lies on their side the other partner can simply slip in from behind.
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It's gentle, intimate, and requires little movement - perfect for when temperatures soar.
Edge of Glory
One partner lies flat on the edge of the bed while the other person stands or kneels on the floor.
Because only one person is on the mattress, there's less trapped body heat, meaning you'll stay cooler.
Plus, this particular position allows for deep penetration without full-body contact.
Shower Power
Skip the bedroom entirely and take the fun to the bathroom.
Water helps regulate body temperature and keeps things slippery in all the right ways.
In my opinion it's best for standing positions like facing each other or from behind.
Just be careful with your footing… non slip mats or suction cup shower handles are your friend here.
Ice, Ice, Maybe
Temperature play isn't just kinky… it's cooling, too.
Gently run an ice cube along your partner's neck, inner thighs or lower back.
This adds a shock of sensation and cools the skin at the same time.
You can even incorporate chilled massage oils or edible lubes by keeping them in the fridge for a refreshing twist.
Fan Club
If you don't have air con, position a fan near the bed and experiment with airflow.
Try angling it so it hits your bodies directly, or place a damp towel in front for a DIY cooling effect.
Sensation-wise, the breeze heightens touch and makes everything feel just a little more sensitive as it encourages more awareness of your body as the breeze hits you.
Flat Out
Lying flat on your backs side-by-side allows for mutual masturbation without touching.
This helps to keep the intimacy high and is also a great way to explore fantasies, talk dirty or try toys together without the full body contact making you too hot.
If you're stuck for ideas, try a little erotic fiction as inspiration, such as Fifty Shades of Grey, Tell Me To Stop, or my novel, The Endless Autumn, would all be great picks.
Cool Down Quickies
When it's hot, long sessions can feel more like a workout than a romp.
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Instead, enjoy shorter, more intense encounters rather than marathon sex sessions.
A study by The Conversation reported an average median time of 5.4 minutes for couples, so don't be afraid to embrace the quickie.
Chill Out Aftercare
The post-sex glow can easily become a post-sex sweat in summer.
Keep a cold flannel, cooling body mist and a glass of ice water by the bed to freshen up afterwards.
It'll help you feel refreshed, reconnected and ready to go again… once you've cooled off of course.
What your sexual fantasies say about you
By Emma Kenny, a TV presenter and psychologist
Raucous Role Play: If your partner enjoys dressing up for fun, it shows creativity and a desire to keep things exciting. However, it might signal that he struggles with responsibility.
Multi-Partner Fantasies: Craving variety doesn't always mean he wants to cheat. However, it could indicate deeper feelings of unfulfillment.
Power & Control: A little dominance is normal, but if it's always about control, it may hide insecurities.
Adventure: Men seeking thrills may push boundaries, so be sure your comfort zone is respected.
Passion: If he's romantic, he's emotionally tuned in—though occasionally avoiding tough conversations.
Flexibility: Openness to new experiences is great, but constant novelty-seeking could mean avoiding emotional connection.
Red Flag: If control is his ultimate fantasy, it may signal a deeper struggle with power dynamics.
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