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The Sun
20 hours ago
- Climate
- The Sun
The sex position & tips that will keep you cool whilst you're getting heated
WITH the temperatures climbing this week, it's no surprise if you're feeling a bit hot and bothered at home. Sure, cracking open the windows and cranking up the fans can help, but let's be honest - it might also have you scooting as far away from your partner as humanly possible. 5 And the last thing on your mind is getting heated in the sheets. But sexpert Annabelle Knight believes the hot weather shouldn't be affecting your sex life. She says: 'With another sizzling spell of sunshine heading our way, it's not just our factor fifty that'll be working overtime. 'When temperatures rise, so can passion, but getting steamy when there's soaring temperatures can be more sticky than sexy. 'But, you don't need to sacrifice pleasure just because the sun's out. 'With the right positions, props, and a bit of creativity, you can stay cool while still getting hot and heavy…' Here, she tells YASMIN HARISHA her top eight sex positions that'll save you from being a sweltering mess at home. The Lazy Spoon This is a super sensual low-effort, side-by-side position. It's ideal for conserving energy…as the receiving partner lies on their side the other partner can simply slip in from behind. Hailey and Justin Bieber's sex confessions from her threesome rules to favourite position It's gentle, intimate, and requires little movement - perfect for when temperatures soar. Edge of Glory One partner lies flat on the edge of the bed while the other person stands or kneels on the floor. Because only one person is on the mattress, there's less trapped body heat, meaning you'll stay cooler. Plus, this particular position allows for deep penetration without full-body contact. Shower Power Skip the bedroom entirely and take the fun to the bathroom. Water helps regulate body temperature and keeps things slippery in all the right ways. In my opinion it's best for standing positions like facing each other or from behind. Just be careful with your footing… non slip mats or suction cup shower handles are your friend here. Ice, Ice, Maybe Temperature play isn't just kinky… it's cooling, too. Gently run an ice cube along your partner's neck, inner thighs or lower back. This adds a shock of sensation and cools the skin at the same time. You can even incorporate chilled massage oils or edible lubes by keeping them in the fridge for a refreshing twist. Fan Club If you don't have air con, position a fan near the bed and experiment with airflow. Try angling it so it hits your bodies directly, or place a damp towel in front for a DIY cooling effect. Sensation-wise, the breeze heightens touch and makes everything feel just a little more sensitive as it encourages more awareness of your body as the breeze hits you. Flat Out Lying flat on your backs side-by-side allows for mutual masturbation without touching. This helps to keep the intimacy high and is also a great way to explore fantasies, talk dirty or try toys together without the full body contact making you too hot. If you're stuck for ideas, try a little erotic fiction as inspiration, such as Fifty Shades of Grey, Tell Me To Stop, or my novel, The Endless Autumn, would all be great picks. Cool Down Quickies When it's hot, long sessions can feel more like a workout than a romp. 5 Instead, enjoy shorter, more intense encounters rather than marathon sex sessions. A study by The Conversation reported an average median time of 5.4 minutes for couples, so don't be afraid to embrace the quickie. Chill Out Aftercare The post-sex glow can easily become a post-sex sweat in summer. Keep a cold flannel, cooling body mist and a glass of ice water by the bed to freshen up afterwards. It'll help you feel refreshed, reconnected and ready to go again… once you've cooled off of course. What your sexual fantasies say about you By Emma Kenny, a TV presenter and psychologist Raucous Role Play: If your partner enjoys dressing up for fun, it shows creativity and a desire to keep things exciting. However, it might signal that he struggles with responsibility. Multi-Partner Fantasies: Craving variety doesn't always mean he wants to cheat. However, it could indicate deeper feelings of unfulfillment. Power & Control: A little dominance is normal, but if it's always about control, it may hide insecurities. Adventure: Men seeking thrills may push boundaries, so be sure your comfort zone is respected. Passion: If he's romantic, he's emotionally tuned in—though occasionally avoiding tough conversations. Flexibility: Openness to new experiences is great, but constant novelty-seeking could mean avoiding emotional connection. Red Flag: If control is his ultimate fantasy, it may signal a deeper struggle with power dynamics.
The Irish Sun
20 hours ago
- Lifestyle
- The Irish Sun
The sex position & tips that will keep you cool whilst you're getting heated
WITH the temperatures climbing this week, it's no surprise if you're feeling a bit hot and bothered at home. Sure, cracking open the windows and cranking up the fans can help, but let's be honest - it might also have you scooting as far away from your partner as humanly possible. 5 Annabelle Knight has revealed her top sex positions to help you keep cool Credit: Annabelle Knight 5 She believes that you don't have to sacrifice your sex life because it's hot Credit: Getty - Contributor And the last thing on your mind is getting heated in the sheets. But sexpert She says: 'With another sizzling spell of sunshine heading our way, it's not just our factor fifty that'll be working overtime. 'When temperatures rise, so can passion, but getting steamy when there's soaring temperatures can be more sticky than sexy. READ MORE ON SUMMER HACKS 'But, you don't need to sacrifice pleasure just because the sun's out. 'With the right positions, props, and a bit of creativity, you can stay cool while still getting hot and heavy…' Here, she tells YASMIN HARISHA her top eight sex positions that'll save you from being a sweltering mess at home. The Lazy Spoon This is a super sensual low-effort, side-by-side position. Most read in Fabulous It's ideal for conserving energy…as the receiving partner lies on their side the other partner can simply slip in from behind. Hailey and Justin Bieber's sex confessions from her threesome rules to favourite position It's gentle, intimate, and requires little movement - perfect for when temperatures soar. Edge of Glory 5 Sometimes the no contact sex positions are the best in the heat Credit: supplied One partner lies flat on the edge of the bed while the other person stands or kneels on the floor. Because only one person is on the mattress, there's less trapped body heat, meaning you'll stay cooler. Plus, this particular position allows for deep penetration without full-body contact. Shower Power Skip the bedroom entirely and take the Water helps regulate body temperature and keeps things slippery in all the right ways. In my opinion it's best for standing positions like facing each other or from behind. Just be careful with your footing… non slip mats or suction cup shower handles are your friend here. Ice, Ice, Maybe Temperature play isn't just kinky… it's cooling, too. This adds a shock of sensation and cools the skin at the same time. You can even incorporate chilled massage oils or edible lubes by keeping them in the fridge for a refreshing twist. Fan Club If you don't have air con, position a fan near the bed and experiment with airflow. Try angling it so it hits your bodies directly, or place a damp towel in front for a DIY cooling effect. Sensation-wise, the breeze heightens touch and makes everything feel just a little more sensitive as it encourages more awareness of your body as the breeze hits you. Flat Out 5 Get creative with the different types of positions Credit: supplied Lying flat on your backs side-by-side allows for mutual masturbation without touching. This helps to keep the intimacy high and is also a great way to explore fantasies, If you're stuck for ideas, try a little erotic fiction as inspiration, such as Fifty Shades of Grey, Tell Me To Stop, or my novel, Cool Down Quickies When it's hot, long sessions can feel more like a workout than a romp. 5 Annabelle Knight holding a riding crop at a Fifty Shades of Grey event Credit: Olivia West Instead, enjoy shorter, more intense encounters rather than marathon sex sessions. A study by Chill Out Aftercare The post-sex glow can easily become a post-sex sweat in summer. Keep a cold flannel, cooling body mist and a glass of ice water by the bed to freshen up afterwards. It'll help you feel refreshed, reconnected and ready to go again… once you've cooled off of course. What your sexual fantasies say about you By Raucous Role Play: If your partner enjoys dressing up for fun, it shows creativity and a desire to keep things exciting. However, it might signal that he struggles with responsibility. Multi-Partner Fantasies: Craving variety doesn't always mean he wants to cheat. However, it could indicate deeper feelings of unfulfillment. Power & Control: A little dominance is normal, but if it's always about control, it may hide insecurities. Adventure: Men seeking thrills may push boundaries, so be sure your comfort zone is respected. Passion: If he's romantic, he's emotionally tuned in—though occasionally avoiding tough conversations. Flexibility: Openness to new experiences is great, but constant novelty-seeking could mean avoiding emotional connection. Red Flag: If control is his ultimate fantasy, it may signal a deeper struggle with power dynamics.
North Wales Live
16-05-2025
- Entertainment
- North Wales Live
Lovehoney launches new book club
Lovehoney has launched Between the Sheets: A Smut Book Club after a study this year found that searches for 'smut books' rose by 78% between May 2023 and May 2024; and one series, A Court of Thorns and Roses (widely referred to as ACOTAR), was a huge driving force. #SmutTok now makes up 3% of the #BookTok universe. On TikTok, the hashtag #Smutbook has had 68,000 posts, whilst #Spicybooks has had over 1.1 million posts. Between the Sheets is a safe space to chat, share, and connect with fellow smut-lovers serving up reads from trending genres. To celebrate the launch, Lovehoney is giving away 100 curated bundles featuring a bestselling smut novel and a toy. The first 100 sign-ups to 'Between the Sheets' book club forum will be in with a chance of winning one. Lovehoney's sex & relationship expert, Annabelle Knight, said: "Erotica has a unique power - it opens the door to discovering what truly excites you, in a way that feels personal and empowering. As smut books continue to rise in popularity online, they're helping people uncover more about their desires, boundaries, and turn-ons - often for the first time, and can enhance solo pleasure or intimacy with a partner. Between the Sheets is about creating a space where people can explore their fantasies, spark new conversations around pleasure, and feel confident embracing their desires.'
Wales Online
16-05-2025
- Entertainment
- Wales Online
Lovehoney launches new book club
Lovehoney has launched Between the Sheets: A Smut Book Club after a study this year found that searches for 'smut books' rose by 78% between May 2023 and May 2024; and one series, A Court of Thorns and Roses (widely referred to as ACOTAR), was a huge driving force. #SmutTok now makes up 3% of the #BookTok universe. On TikTok, the hashtag #Smutbook has had 68,000 posts, whilst #Spicybooks has had over 1.1 million posts. Between the Sheets is a safe space to chat, share, and connect with fellow smut-lovers serving up reads from trending genres. To celebrate the launch, Lovehoney is giving away 100 curated bundles featuring a bestselling smut novel and a toy. The first 100 sign-ups to 'Between the Sheets' book club forum will be in with a chance of winning one. Lovehoney's sex & relationship expert, Annabelle Knight, said: "Erotica has a unique power - it opens the door to discovering what truly excites you, in a way that feels personal and empowering. As smut books continue to rise in popularity online, they're helping people uncover more about their desires, boundaries, and turn-ons - often for the first time, and can enhance solo pleasure or intimacy with a partner. Between the Sheets is about creating a space where people can explore their fantasies, spark new conversations around pleasure, and feel confident embracing their desires.' For more information visit: Between The Sheets: Where Pleasure Meets Page-turners
Metro
03-05-2025
- General
- Metro
The 7 main reasons why you're 'chronically single' and can't find love
While there's plenty to love about the single life, as time goes by and you never get past the talking stage, it's easy to start wondering why. Just under two thirds of UK adults are currently coupled up, with the majority of people entering a new relationship in less than two years after a breakup. Before you compare yourself though, keep in mind that these figures cover the whole spectrum – from sweet elderly couples who've never spent a night apart to serial monogamists who are so terrified of spending a night alone that they settle for anyone . In reality, there's no set length of time when being single becomes an issue, and not being in a relationship is always better than being in a bad one. But if you feel like you're 'chronically single' despite your best efforts to find love, there's no harm in exploring what's hampering things. So to help discover the reason for cupid's arrow always whizzing past you, we asked relationship therapists and dating coaches the issues they see time and time again. According to couples counsellor and psychosexual therapist Annabelle Knight, many 'chronically single' folks have an idealised vision of love, often 'shaped by things like social media or romantic films.' And as such, 'they may dismiss potential partners for not meeting an exhaustive list of traits or anticipate an instant, overwhelming spark.' Love reading juicy stories like this? Need some tips for how to spice things up in the bedroom? Sign up to The Hook-Up and we'll slide into your inbox every week with all the latest sex and dating stories from Metro. We can't wait for you to join us! Michelle Begy, MMI-accredited matchmaker and founder of Ignite Dating agrees, telling Metro it's 'one of the most frequent issues' she comes across. 'This might mean prioritising things like height, job title or shared hobbies over emotional compatibility and shared values,' she explains. 'But while standards are important, perfectionism can become a defence mechanism that keeps intimacy at a distance.' 'If you're looking for a committed relationship in a club or a pub there is little chance that you will find a good match,' Dr Tara, relational sexual communication professor and Celebs Go Dating sexpert, tells Metro. Since the boozy setting can cause you to lower your standards, she recommends starting with dating apps – with the caveat that you use them mindfully so you don't get burnt out, and create an 'honest profile of what you truly want.' Alternatively, 'ask friends to introduce you to someone they think would be a good match.' In some cases, a subconscious fear of being hurt (particularly if it's happened before) can lead you to avoid opening up emotionally – a necessary step for a lasting relationship. Annabelle, who's an expert with Lovehoney, tells Metro: 'Some people stay single because they associate intimacy with loss, betrayal, or rejection. As a result, they either avoid dating altogether or maintain superficial connections that never deepen. 'True connection requires emotional risk, a leap many are reluctant to take.' RuPaul's most poignant tagline, 'if you can't love yourself, how the hell are you going to love someone else?' applies here. BACP-accredited love and relationship coach Heather Garbutt tells Metro that people who struggle to find love often harbour 'powerful unconscious beliefs about themselves and others, which make being in a relationship feel more of a danger or something that is not possible for them.' These beliefs – including the likes of 'I am not good enough' or 'I am not wanted' – are typically rooted in childhood trauma, and can unconsciously harm your ability to connect. Alongside making it harder for someone to start a relationship, Heather says that a lack of self-confidence can mean that when love does happen, it may not last as they 'inadvertently train their partner to treat them as if they're invisible or as if they don't matter.' Dr Tara echoes this, saying that the harsh truth is, some people simply aren't ready to date because they haven't worked on themselves. 'I've observed this problem consistently,' she continues. 'That's why personal development is so important. Become a beautiful garden and the butterflies will come.' Low self-worth can then bleed into choosing the wrong partner, which Heather says 'can make for some very unhappy relationships' destined to fail from the start. 'Often rooted in early family dynamics, some individuals unknowingly gravitate toward familiar, though unhealthy, relationship dynamics,' explains Annabelle. 'This can lead to repeatedly choosing partners who mirror unresolved issues, such as emotionally distant figures or chaotic relationships. 'Without self-awareness or healing, these patterns become self-fulfilling cycles.' Although you shouldn't sit around waiting for a relationship, are you sure have space for one in your life, either practically or emotionally? On the tangible side, Michelle says this can include someone 'working long hours or being stuck in a comfortable routine,' while mentally they may be holding on to baggage from the past that's taking up their headspace. 'Others say they want a relationship, but in reality, aren't putting themselves in situations where new connections can realistically happen,' she adds. 'Dating requires a level of intention and openness that's hard to maintain if your life is already at capacity.' This one may be hard to hear, but if bad chat is the problem holding you back, at least it can be worked on. More Trending Dr Tara highlights that 'dating is all about communication,' so if you're noticing a common first date theme of awkward silences or conversations going nowhere, that's probably why relationships aren't either. 'People who are great conversationalists are perceived as more charming, clever, and attractive,' she adds. 'Read books about how to become better at conversations and practice that through communication with friends and family.' Recognising negative traits or habits is often the first step towards changing them, which in turn can help you build a lasting, fulfilling connection. View More » However, if you you still can't identify where you're going wrong, feel like you're doing everything right and still coming up short, or need some tailored guidance, it's worth chatting to a professional. Do you have a story to share? Get in touch by emailing MetroLifestyleTeam@ MORE: I always get the 'heatwave horn' – there's no telling what I might do MORE: My boyfriend's sex habit used to offend me — now I feel lucky MORE: I'm sick of people assuming Sydney Sweeney is dating her colleagues
