LaVar Ball leg amputated due to diabetes: ‘Good to have my foot cut off as opposed to being dead'

When LaVar Ball first addressed having his right foot amputated, he seemed to be taking the matter in stride.
'Did y'all forget I'm LaVar?' the father of NBA players Lonzo and LaMelo Ball and rising rap star/former professional basketball player LiAngelo Ball said last month on TikTok. 'If I wanted to, I'd grow it back!'
In a first-person article published Tuesday by Slam magazine, however, the famously vociferous Papa Ball revealed that he wasn't always so upbeat about his medical situation — and that he ended up losing more than just his foot over the course of three operations since December.
'I had an infection on my foot that started spreading through my blood due to not paying attention to my diabetes,' Ball wrote. 'I ended up having to get my leg amputated. First, they cut off a couple of toes. Then they cut off my foot. Then they said, 'We gotta go almost knee high for another surgery.' Three surgeries. And then there were also the blood transfusions. Not one, not two, not three, four different times.
'All those surgeries and blood transfusions, it made me question whether it was worth going through it sometimes. It made me think, 'Man, just kill me and let me go about my business.' It made me think that maybe it's time for me to shut it down.
'But then seeing what my boys are doing out there, they're like, 'Dad you're the toughest dude I know.' That made me keep going. ... It was good to have that backing from my boys. One of the things that makes me go is when they are all together. When they are all together, I feel strong.'
With an over-the-top personality he used to promote his own business ventures, Ball became a well-known figure in the sports world while his sons were basketball stars at Chino Hills High School. Now he says he intends to use his platform to encourage others to look after their own well-being better than he did.
'From my experience the last couple months, I want to get in people's heads the importance of taking care of your health — especially Black people, because sometimes we're not trying to go to the hospital, we will try to sleep it off or say, 'Yeah, we'll get to it later,'' Ball wrote. 'And sometimes it's a little more serious than what you think.
'I look at my situation like this: I've talked to some of my people that's my age that's been calling me that have cancer. And they say, 'We thought we got it all, but we didn't,' and so the organs are getting tore up in the inside. Now these folks are dying. And these are my friends that are around my age, in the 50s and dying of cancer.
'Just for me to have my foot cut off, I got another one. I'm good to have my foot cut off as opposed to being dead. But if I don't go at the end of last year during Christmas to get that infection looked at, [an infection] that's been around for maybe a month or two on the bottom of my foot, this would be a different type of story.'

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I'm way more comfortable because the prior two months I had just been having like tearful conversations telling people about my diagnosis and being like, 'All right, go. I ruined your day. Like, go enjoy.' And so this was the first time I'm like, 'All right, people aren't even asking me what's going on. They're just trying to have fun.' Johnson: When Brooke got home, she started going through the note on her phone, detailing all the funny moments since her diagnosis. The next day she had brunch with the same friend who cheered her up at the wedding, Jackie. Brooke showed Jackie the note on her phone. Eby: She was like, 'Brooke, you need to do something with this. This can't just live here.' I forced her to be in my first video because I'm like, 'If we are gonna be embarrassed, you're going down with me.' Johnson: The very first video is of Brooke and Jackie on a couch, pantomiming the conversation where Brooke discloses that she has a rare terminal illness. 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Johnson: Or 'Okay, I see you Abraham Limping.' Sivertson: Next, Brooke started making videos about this medicine she was taking as part of a trial Johnson: Medicine that tasted really bad. Eby: So I did a taste testing series so people could suggest how to chase it or how to deal with it. Eby (clip from TikTok video): Pickle juice, shot glass. Oh, stench. Let's just do it. Let's just do it. It's no big deal. Eby: I think after those two, that was when I started seeing, 'Okay, people are remembering that they've seen me before and they were saying like, Brooke, blah, blah blah.' They remembered who I was, as opposed to it just being another swipe away video. But it is hard, I think, to still understand any sort of impact you make if it's just on the internet, because, I don't know, sometimes it feels like I'm playing The Sims. I see the number of people watching and I see all the comments, but it's strange because ultimately I'm talking to my phone and then I'm clicking a button and then I'm seeing little internet sims pop up as comments. I'm like, 'How is any of this real?' It's strange because everyone's like, 'You're so brave.' I'm actually just talking to myself in my room. Sivertson: Do you identify as an influencer? Do you think of yourself as an influencer? What's your relationship to that term? Eby: No. I don't really have one. The stuff that I influence on is much more niche. If you need adaptive clothing, I've got a recommendation, but it's not like everyone's going to go out and sell that out because it's not a need for most people. Johnson: That's what I was gonna ask, what are the products that you would influence on? Eby: Yeah, you should see the partnerships that reach out to me. I always crack up picturing my manager versus a normal person's manager, because she gets calls from the National Funeral Directors Association and I'm like, 'Sure, sure, sure. That's a perfect fit.' It's a very weird space to be in. Sivertson: So Brooke is definitely not a full-time influencer. She still works a nine to five job in tech with only the occasional funeral sponsored content. Eby (clip from TikTok video): Funeral directors help with every step of the end of life plan. They can document your wishes and understand the logistics. So if I wanna play Kesha's 'Die Young,' noted. Johnson: Unlike other viral creators, Brooke doesn't get a lot of hate online, but she does get comments that are pretty weird. Eby: Someone wrote me a message. This poor person because I don't even know who it was. It was some stranger, but she was like, 'Sometimes I feel like I have a death sentence because I've been single for so long.' Sivertson: Oh. Johnson: Wow. Eby: It's just like, in her heart, she's not trying to be mean to me. Johnson: Mm-hmm, right. There's also this layer of pity or sort of people being like, 'Oh, you make me feel thankful for every day because your life is so terrible, right?' Eby: Yeah. Johnson: What does that feel like for you to receive? Because you seem very open and non-judgmental in some ways, but also you can see the humor and ridiculousness of the way people act towards you. That's what I was trying to ask about, if that makes sense. Eby: Yeah, I actually had not even thought about that. Then someone messaged me once and they're like, 'Do you ever get sick of being the reason people want to be a better person?' And I'd never really thought about it, but once she said it, now I'm like, I do. It kind of is in the back of my head sometimes when I get comments like that, but they have to be phrased in a very specific way for it to be a little obnoxious. Most of the time, if someone's like, 'I wanna appreciate every day.' To me, that's a great comment. I'm like, good. If someone were to say, 'I should feel lucky because my life isn't as shitty as yours,' I don't think I would like that phrasing. But I don't know that people phrase it like that. I don't remember seeing that. At least I would say feedback is a gift. The feedback that I got, especially at the beginning was, 'You're making light of this' or 'You seem too happy.' And I think honestly, most of the people who are making those comments are probably ones who had a first row seat to someone living with this and are still feeling angry at the disease. At least that's the backstory I've given them because otherwise, what do they care? I think in my mind, I'm not reframing it. I just wasn't that progressed. It wasn't that hard at that point. And now that it's gotten worse, there's not going to be as many videos of me being like, 'Hey, this is no big deal.' It's just the nature of progression. So I'm just like 'Stay along for the ride and if you wanna see things get worse, you will with this disease. So stick around.' Johnson: Watching all of Brooke's videos in one day is kind of like reading a flip book of how ALS progresses. In the early videos, Brooke doesn't look that far off from, say, one of the famous beauty influencers like Alix Earle. She does her makeup and get-ready-with-me videos. Her shampoo-commercial hair always looks like she's just had a blowout. She lives alone in a cool apartment. Now she needs around the clock care, thus the difficult decision to move home. Sivertson: How would you describe your mobility right now? Eby: Like a ragdoll? Nothing really works. I can raise my hands, but they're claws now. I'm really not into the way they look. I can still type, especially on my phone. I can still type on the keyboard, a lot more typos these days. I can move my head and talk, but below the screen, it's a mess. Johnson: Before the TikTok band briefly went into effect in January, Brooke made a video about how it felt to go back and watch her own content from the beginning. Eby (clip from TikTok video): It's so surreal the amount that we've had to adapt. Three years ago, I was walking and now I can't do anything. I don't even feel emotions because it doesn't feel real. It feels like I'm playing a role in a movie and then someone's gonna finally yell, 'cut,' and I'm gonna just pop up outta my chair and go be normal again.' Eby: Day to day, I think it's easy for me to just rely on humor and staying busy to cope. But then in that video, I just looked back at all these videos from a year before, two years before, five years before. And I was like, 'Oh my God.' I did not realize, I knew how much it changed, but I don't know, seeing myself just a year ago versus today was startling. I don't think our brains are meant to compute the speed of change that comes with this disease. I made that video and I was thinking, 'This is not a relatable feeling at all.' I just feel like I'm an actress playing a role right now. This doesn't feel real. And people are like, 'No, that's called dissociation. That's very much a psychological term that most people go through.' And I was like, oh, okay. You can tell I'm not actively in therapy all the time. Sivertson: In your videos, you've been documenting all along the way, the progression of the disease and how it's changing your life day by day, implement by implementation that you're adding into your routine. But there will come a time when you can't verbalize anymore, when you can't use your voice and use your humor in the way that you use it now. Do you think you'll still be making videos? Have you thought about what the content creation process might be then? Eby: Yeah, there are some people who go the full progression while still having a voice, and I'm still delusional enough to think I'm gonna be one of them. Even though my voice is clearly getting weaker, I'm still not slurring, which makes me happy because I'm like, people can still understand me. But that said, I have voice banked. I do have my voice saved so I can use it in some sort of text-to-talk thing. That's a big thing in the ALS community. As soon as you get diagnosed, they start saving your voice. But, I think my intention is to keep going really as far as I can. I think the way it looks might be a little different. Rather than me talking a ton, it might be like my parents helping to talk or filming stuff. Or maybe it's just, not talking and I'm just putting music over something I'm doing. I think there's options. My goal is really to show everything, just because that's what I wish someone had done. I would love to see someone who's more progressed than I am, get into bed or stay asleep. Like how the hell do you stay asleep when you can't move and you get uncomfortable or something falls asleep? Those are the things that I don't want to watch a whole sad documentary just to glean insights of how to do things when I could just make a two minute video. It might not work next week, but it's working right now, so that's the goal. Man plans, God laughs. I think people say, but that's the plan for now. Sivertson: Brooke doesn't know exactly how much time she has. Maybe she has five years, maybe she has 10 years. Johnson: What she does know is that curing ALS, it's going to take more resources. Sivertson: Social media, whether it's the Ice Bucket Challenge or a TikTok or raising awareness, can build community around ALS, but it's not going to cure the disease. That takes research, which has a price tag. Eby (clip from TikTok video): Thank you for all of the thoughts and prayers. Now, have you considered money? Sivertson: Right now ALS researchers are facing proposed funding cuts by the Trump administration that could drastically slow down their efforts. So if you're a billionaire, says Brooke, maybe forget about rockets and Mars and take up funding ALS research as your cause. Eby: I feel like the other planets have already made it here, and we just haven't been told about it. So I'm like, why don't we just ask them what it's like before we go waste all our money going there. Johnson: On TikTok, Brooke is a one woman ice bucket challenge, raising awareness of ALS and what it's like to live with it. But going viral prompted her to start another online community, one that's more specific. Eby: So if you think about my last two and a half years after being diagnosed, I put myself in front of an audience, and because of that, I have access to so many more resources because I have 200,000 people willing to answer a question I have. If I were to post, 'I really need advice on the best toothbrush for weekends.' I could get a thousand messages back. Whereas someone who's not a psycho putting her life online, like a normal person living with this disease, they could go to their support group, and I don't know how fast they'll get a response. There's just not as immediate of answers as I've been able to get. So I kept thinking about that: How do I make it so everyone has this level of access and this level of immediacy? And then I flashed back to when I first got diagnosed, they give you this godforsaken packet, it's like an encyclopedia size, and it's just pamphlet after pamphlet of resources. You've just gotten diagnosed, they tell you you have two to five years, it could be less than that and you're gonna lose every ability until that point. You go home and your brain is just scrambled and you're also like, am I gonna be paralyzed tomorrow? Like you just start thinking in terms of speed, everything moves so fast, and yet the resources they give you are in a folder with paper that none of us has used since elementary school. I'm like, if this disease moves fast, like why are we still treating it like we're in the nineties? We gotta do better than this. Johnson: Brooke's day job is at the tech company, Salesforce. She worked with some of her colleagues there to create a channel on the professional group messaging app Slack. It is specifically for ALS patients and their caregivers, and it's called Brooke says it's really special to her because it's a rare space where people are going through similar challenges. Eby: Even when I'm talking to my best friends in the world, who I've known since we were four years old, I could tell her anything, but right now, she's about to have her second baby at the same time where I'm learning how to use a ceiling lift to get me into the shower. Like we lead two very different lives. I think it's probably the same way that moms feel after they have a baby, where they're like, 'I could complain to my friends, but unless they have a newborn too, they don't get it.' That's probably how everyone feels about something in their life. It's just good to see other people, whether they live near you or look like you going through the same thing. Because you're like, 'Okay, I'm normal in this group.' Johnson: If you have an untold history, an unsolved mystery, or other wild story from the internet that you want us to tell, hit us up at endlessthread@ Leung: Thanks for listening to this episode of 'Endless Thread.' If you want to hear more, follow 'Endless Thread' on Apple Podcasts, Spotify, or wherever you listen. And make sure you're following 'Say More' while you're at it. Kara Mihm of the Globe staff contributed to this report. Shirley Leung is a Business columnist. She can be reached at

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Woman ‘holds death in her hand,' lives to tell about it

A woman in Japan unknowingly put her life at risk when she bent over and picked up a shell while exploring tide pools. Beckylee Rawls, 29, who lives with her husband in Okinawa, collects shells, and on this day she was videotaping the various creatures in the pools for a TikTok video when she came across a 'beautiful shell.' 'Honestly, the only thing going through my head was, 'That's a pretty shell, let me take a closer look,'' Rawls told People. She held it for about 30 seconds before noticing something inside: a live cone snail. Taken aback, Rawls replaced the shell in the water. She posted a few TikTok videos showing her misstep. As she was leaving, Rawls did an online search for that shell. 'That's when I learned I might have just made the biggest mistake of my life,' she told People. The cone snail is among the most venomous creatures on Earth. The shell isn't dangerous, it's what's inside the shell. Cone snail venom can cause paralysis, respiratory failure and cardiovascular collapse. A sting can be fatal. Also on FTW Outdoors: 'Ghost elephant' seen for first time in years; is it a lone survivor? FOX8 reported that Rawls 'went to the beach and held death in her hand.' Fortunately, she wasn't stung, but the thought that she might have been stung persisted and 'terrified' her. 'My brain kept convincing me that I had been stung and just didn't realize it,' she told People. 'By the fourth day of panic, my husband was sick of reassuring me I was indeed going to live. There is no anti-venom—that's the craziest part. It's a hope-and-pray situation.' It should be noted that humans have survived stings from cone snails, but prompt medical care is crucial. "It's even nicknamed the 'Cigarette Snail' because, according to urban legend, if it stings you, you won't live long enough to finish a final cigarette," Rawls told People. "That chilling reputation really put things into perspective." Photo courtesy of Beckylee Rawls.