Would you date a man wearing these sandals?
A row on Mumsnet isn't unusual, but this one was particularly heated. The subject? Shoes. Men's shoes, to be specific. On Saturday, one Mumsnet user tentatively asked whether she was being 'unreasonable' to feel second-hand embarrassment at her husband's new sandals. 'I don't know why but they make me cringe. I think sandals on men look so naff and 'old man',' she wrote, above a photo of said sandals. 'Am I being unreasonable, or do they look really naff and embarrassing?!'
I'm not embarrassed myself to admit that I spent a good half-hour scrolling through the hundreds of replies and howling. The response was mixed, I'd say, with various people saying she was being entirely reasonable, and that they'd consider divorce if their husband appeared
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I've swapped the traditional rich mayonnaise and sweet mango chutney for protein-rich Greek yogurt and zesty lime juice, creating a sauce that's not only brighter and lighter but also wonderfully bold. This lighter yet flavourful base, perfectly complements the tender chicken, while the recipe's rich texture, featuring crunchy celery and chewy raisins, elevates the dish to something truly memorable – a coronation chicken that's anything but one-note. Nutrition (per 100g) Health and nutrition benefits Healthy Fats: The Greek yogurt and roasted cashews provide healthy monounsaturated and polyunsaturated fats, which are beneficial for heart health. Reduced Sugar: Mango chutney is typically used in most recipes, which is high in sugar. This recipe uses a small amount of honey and relies more on the natural sweetness of the apple and raisins, resulting in lower overall sugar content. 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