'Stranger's lungs meant I could walk down the aisle - I defied all odds'

Kirstin was born with a life limiting lung condition and would have died if it wasn't for an incredible donor who saved her life. Now she's fulfilled her dream to walk down the aisle
There will always be three people in Kirstin Smyth's marriage - herself, her husband Liam and the stranger who made their wedding day possible.
For Kirstin, 36, was born with the life limiting lung condition cystic fibrosis (CF) and without the lung transplant she received at the end of 2018, she would have died.
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Kirstin, a nanny, who married in November 2024, says 'It was such an emotional moment for me when I walked down the aisle on our wedding day to marry Liam.
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'I'd told him a few days after we first met that I didn't know what the future was going to hold for me, but he wasn't put off.
'Our wedding day was incredibly special. It meant such a lot. All the guests knew what had happened and they were all so happy for us.
'I knew that I wouldn't be standing there, exchanging my wedding vows, if it hadn't been for my donor and her family making that brave decision to donate her organs.'
Kirstin, who lives in Oxford with landscape gardener Liam, 35, says her parents had been told her CF meant she would be lucky to make her teens.
She defied the odds, but was then told she would be unlikely to make 30. Diagnosed with CF - which damages the lungs, digestive tract and other organs and is an inherited disease caused by a defective gene, affecting the cells that produce mucus, sweat and digestive juices - at six months old, she is the first person in her family to have the condition.
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She says: 'I wasn't thriving and when my parents took me to the hospital, the doctor kissed me - and said my skin was salty, which is a sign of cystic fibrosis, so I was sent off for more tests. When they found I had the condition, my parents were told that I wouldn't live to my teens, which was devastating for them to hear.'
Kept alive by modern medicine, in her early 20s Kirstin - who met Liam in a local nightclub when she was 20 - was assessed for a lung transplant. She says: 'I'm a positive person and the doctors often told me that positivity was a medicine in itself. I was always determined that CF wasn't going to hold me back.
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'I was put on the transplant list at 27. But, at that point, I didn't know if I was going to survive into my 30s.'
Despite her CF, Liam only saw his future with Kirstin and, when she was in hospital in 2013 having treatment, he proposed
She says: "We didn't know what the future was going to hold and he knew that, one day, I was going to need a transplant, but he still wanted to marry me. A lot of men would have been put off, but he's a special guy."
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Kirstin waited two years for a lifesaving lung transplant - during which time she had three false calls, where lungs had been found, but at the last minute were deemed unsuitable.
'Each time was a crushing disappointment, as I didn't know if I would get another call,' she says. "But then, finally, on the fourth occasion in November 2018, there was a call to get to the hospital and this time the transplant went ahead.
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'It felt amazing afterwards when I got my new lungs and was able to breathe properly for the first time. It completely changed my life.'
As well as walking down the aisle, her new lungs have helped her to fulfill another dream to compete with her husky dogs doing dryland mushing, a dog powered sport, where the animals pull a person on a sled without snow.
She says: 'To have the energy to be able to do this with my dogs was an incredible feeling of achievement.'
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And last November - thanks to her lung donor, who she knows was a mum - she married Liam in front of 77 guests at the Crazy Bear Hotel in Southampton.
'My dad talked about my donor in his speech and said how amazing it was that I was here today on my wedding day,' she says.
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'I don't let my illness define me, but I'm very proud of how far I've come.
'I have written to my donor's family to thank them after the transplant and I did receive a letter back from them.
'I'm now going to write and tell them about getting married and what it means to me.
'I want them to know what their mum's lungs have done for me, as I wouldn't be here today, doing everything that I love, if it hadn't been for her.'

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Speaking from his home where he is recovering, he explained that the cost of the flight was supposed to be £35,000, but due to needing an extra medic onboard, the cost went up to £37,500. He added: "The insurance decided out of the kindness of their heart, they'd cover £50,000, so I've had to fork out £25,000, for the medical bills. That was totalling £75,000 when I left." Liam says that at the time of being offered the payout, he instantly decided to accept as he had "no choice" due to not having £75,000 available. ‌ Due to the mounting medical bills, Liam's girlfriend set up a GoFundMe page to help cover the costs, which he says was a last resort. "I had to borrow money for the repatriation," he said before explaining that his insurance firm had rejected his case, claiming he was engaging in deliberate or harmful acts. He branded it "ridiculous", before adding: "There's not one bit in the policy that states what's acceptable, safe or unsafe footwear." ‌ In an email from his insurance firm, Admiral, which has been seen by the Mirror, the insurance group said they were unable to process Liam's claim, with them claiming he engaged in a "reckless act" which they class as "putting yourself in needless danger" or "failing to follow recommended safety precautions" on excursions. Liam, like many tourists visiting the waterfall, was wearing sliders due to the intense heat and humidity in the popular resort. While in Thailand, Liam attempted to get in contact with the British Embassy and Consulate but struggled to speak to a human, rather than an electronic operator. ‌ Reflecting on the GoFundMe, he said: "It was pretty much a last-ditch effort to get what we can." Since returning to the UK, Liam's local MP, Jonathan Brash, has contacted Admiral to express his disappointment. Liam said: "He came to visit me in the hospital, he's writing a letter to the insurance to get them to change their minds, he said it's an absolute joke." Liam has also been supported by Forces Mutual, an organisation focused on improving the lives of people who serve in HM Forces. "The CEO basically got in contact with me because he'd heard about it through the lads in the army," he said, explaining that the CEO instantly offered to look through Liam's insurance policy. He has now appealed Admiral's decision, and failing any movement, he is prepared to discuss his case with the ombudsman. Reflecting on his fall, which was just over two months ago, Liam says he remembers the "majority" of the terrifying incident, including going over the edge. However, he doesn't remember his "way down." ‌ Liam had been taking a picture of his surroundings when his feet gave way, and he slipped over and started to pick up speed. While Liam didn't fall the whole way down, he instead landed on "a bit of rock sticking out halfway down." His girlfriend had previously told the Mirror that had he fallen any further, he'd have "died on the spot." Now, he's unsure if he doesn't remember descending due to either hitting his head or mentally blocking it out. "I remember slipping, then going towards the edge thinking 'S**t, here we go,' going over and then I remember waking up and crawling out of the water. I remember most of being at the bottom, but I was in and out of consciousness, I was pouring with blood, I wasn't all there," he said. ‌ He says that reading Lucy's previous interview with the Mirror in the hospital, the memories started flooding back to him. Recalling the incident, he said: "I was unlucky for what happened but since the accident, everything has been so lucky. There was a vine swinging off before I went over the edge which slowed me down. "I landed the ledge, not the right the way down. My girlfriend came and found me, and a doctor bandaged me up. Everything from the fall was really lucky after that." Locals and doctors told Liam he was "lucky to be alive" following the fall in the area, which they described as the "Taker of Young Souls." ‌ Liam had three operations in Thailand, including one on his eye, which he says didn't work and an emergency surgery on his skull. "We got back and surgeons here did X-rays, they found that the titanium mesh under my eye was slipping, my eyeball was slipping right down behind my cheekbone," he said, explaining he was "going blind" in the eye. He had emergency surgery just two days after his X-rays. Now, he is making a recovery at home, engaging in physiotherapy sessions and consultations with medical staff. When approached by the Mirror, Admiral Insurance said they were "very sorry" to hear of Liam's situation and understood that the outcome of his insurance policy may not have been what he was expecting. They said that Mr Gibson "knowingly undertook a risky activity despite clear warnings." A spokesperson said: "We're really sorry to hear about the injuries he has suffered and as a gesture of goodwill, we made an offer of an ex gratia payment of £50,000 to assist with medical costs and his return home. ‌ "Mr Gibson accepted this and asked us to pay this directly to the hospital towards the medical costs incurred, which we are in the process of doing. To assess his claim, we conducted a thorough review, including a site investigation, due to the limited information Mr Gibson and his girlfriend initially provided. Based on the investigation and the statements provided by both of them, we understand Mr Gibson was injured while climbing the Na Muang waterfall and taking a photograph at the top of the waterfall, despite multiple warning signs of the dangers of slipping or falling due to the terrain and slippery rocks. The information provided to us included Mr Gibson confirming that he wasn't wearing appropriate footwear, given the dangerous nature of the site." The spokesperson stated that an agent visited the location of the waterfall to determine whether there was information to make visitors aware of the risks. An agent supplied photographic evidence, stating that there were signs located throughout the journey to the waterfall, displaying the risks involved from walking, climbing, jumping or diving in the area. Phone numbers for emergency services were also visible. "We carefully considered all of the information, including Mr Gibson's account of the incident, the investigator's insights, including photographs of the site, the surrounding warning signs and the information available online about the site," they said. The spokesperson added: "Taking all this into account and given the foreseeable risk and the nature of his actions, which fall under our policy's exclusions for reckless acts, we were unable to cover his claim."