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Motor 1
3 hours ago
- Automotive
- Motor 1
‘He Wears That Little, Dangly Cross Earring:' Woman Says ‘Car Guys' Are Major ‘Red Flags' for Dating. Is She onto Something?
A woman contends that car enthusiasts are more likely to cheat, specifically car guys. Mia Saint (@miasaintj) posted a TikTok listing red flags she believes are clear indicators that someone will be unfaithful. Get the best news, reviews, columns, and more delivered straight to your inbox, daily. back Sign up For more information, read our Privacy Policy and Terms of Use . 'Top five ways to see if a man is a slut. Number one, he's a car guy,' she says. 'Friend you should know already but like just saying.' Saint doesn't go into further detail about her proposed correlation between auto enthusiasm and infidelity. While loving cars themselves hasn't been directly linked to cheating, there have been studies connecting automobiles generally, and specific brands, with unfaithfulness. Trending Now 'I Bet You Didn't Know This:' Woman Discovers This Little-Known Perk to Driving A Subaru. Then Her Order Comes in the Mail 'Don't Get Fooled, Ladies:' Man Says GMC Quoted Wife $900 to Put $6 Amazon Part Back on Car. He Does It in 1 Second Cars and Cheaters In 2023, the Sun published a piece dedicated to the subject of romantic betrayals and vehicle ownership. According to the outlet, a person is more likely to cheat if they own a car. This arguably makes sense, if only for logistic purposes. Being able to commute further and at a moment's notice is much easier, not to mention more discreet, than taking public transportation. A poll referenced in the same piece indicates Fiat owners specifically are some of the biggest cheaters. Fiat isn't the only brand that's been linked to infidelity, however. A 2013 poll a British dating site for married people gave its 750,000 members found that Audi owners were the most likely to cheat. The results of Illicit Encounters' survey, which were covered by DriveSpark and Carscoops , said that BMW owners were second most likely, and Mercedes-Benz owners were third. Peugeot owners, on the other hand, were found to be the most loyal. ShunAuto also wrote an article that car salesmen are perceived as highly likely to cheat on their wives. The piece doesn't provide any hard data to link the vocation to infidelity, however. Instead it claims that the 'dishonest' nature of the job makes it logical that people in sales lie to their partners. Other Red Flags In the post, Saint shares other factors she thinks are red flags for cheating. Her next trait to look out for: Religious-themed ear accessories. 'Number two, he wears that little dangly cross earring. I don't make the rules, but he's either trying to tell you one of two things with the cross. Number one he's a ho, number two, he's....' She then makes a hand gesture that is likely meant to indicate the man is gay. Saint says that the third sign a man is likely to cheat is if he's been raised by women. 'He's gonna try to convince you that he's just very in touch with his feminine side,' she says. 'When really he's very in touch with manipulating women his entire life.' She then turns to men with certain tattoos. She says men who have 'fear God' or 'trust no one' tattoos are more likely to step out on their significant others. The final factor, she says, pertains to cell phones. 'If his phone is on DND [do not disturb] 24/7. Honestly if a man puts his phone on DND period. What are you not wanting to be disturbed for? Because he don't want them hoes disturbing you.' 'I'm Cooked' Several who replied to Saint's video didn't seem to appreciate her list of red flags. One man replied that, according to Saint's rules, they're a walking red flag. 'CAR GUY?!?! I'm cooked,' he said. Someone else wrote that being raised by a single mother was out of his control. 'God forbid I grew up with no dad,' he said. A third celebrated, 'I'm none of them yessssss!' A person who apparently has two of Saint's red flags—car guy and phone on DND—jokingly pushed back on her claims. 'Us car guys [are] busy buying car parts and putting them on,' they wrote. 'That's why phone is on DND.' Motor1 has reached out to Saint via Instagram direct message for further comment. We'll be sure to update this if she responds. More From Motor1 Peugeot Let Designers Run Wild. This Is What They Came Up With No, Volodomyr Zelensky's Wife Didn't Buy a Bugatti Tourbillion Pink And White Bugatti Chiron 'Alice' Is A Husband's Gift To Wife 'I Was Like Bait:' Woman Drives a 'Fishbowl' Car. Then She Reveals Why You Shouldn't Share this Story Facebook X LinkedIn Flipboard Reddit WhatsApp E-Mail Got a tip for us? Email: tips@ Join the conversation ( )
Yahoo
16 hours ago
- General
- Yahoo
Students aren't cheating because they have AI, but because colleges are broken
In recent weeks, a plethora of news and opinion articles have warned that college students are cheating en masse by using artificial intelligence to write their papers, and that higher education is overall in peril. While the details of these arguments vary, many of the articles and the people who comment on them seem to converge on the same solution: Let's return to the Old Days of essays and declamations, when students wrote in blue books and took oral exams. As a writing scholar, I'd like to encourage us all to take a deep breath. Alarms about the illiteracy of American youth and the end of writing as we know it are as old as writing itself, and resurface every time a new tool emerges. Pencils with erasers? The death of writing. Spell check? The death of writing. Word processors? The death of writing. More: AI in the classroom: Cheating, learning, and the new academic gray zone | The Excerpt In the United States, alarm about writing skills has been on a regular cycle of what writing scholar Susan Miller ironically called "nostalgia for the recently lost excellence of student discourse." Remember the "Johnny Can't Write" Newsweek cover in the 1970s? That wasn't the first American literacy crisis by any means. In the late 1800s, journalist and editor-in-chief of the New York Evening Post, E.L. Godkin, made numerous alarming claims about the "illiteracy of American boys." He was especially concerned about all the "evil influences" on their poor writing, which included street slang, the bad writing in newspapers, and popular novels ("the better the novel, the more evil the influence," he claimed). We tend to imagine a previous golden age of writing where Johnny could read and write perfectly and in plain English. But that golden age never existed. Our current challenge is not a new one. Students are what they have always been: learners. And writing continues to be what it has always been: hard. There is no going back to a golden moment when everyone wrote eloquently and students never cheated. Thus, the solution is not to embrace blue book essays, as so many columns advise. More: Professors are using ChatGPT detector tools to accuse students of cheating. But what if the software is wrong? For one thing, our classes are too big. If we really want students writing by hand and giving speeches with feedback and assessment by expert faculty, the first thing we must do is fund public higher education again with tax dollars (we clearly can't raise tuition any further). That does not seem to be the direction that this country is moving. (For a good account of where free, publicly funded higher ed fell apart, take a look at Chris Newfield's excellent book, "The Great Mistake: How We Wrecked Public Universities and How We Can Fix Them.") At every school I know, including mine, administrators and the legislators who control our "state share of instruction" funds are requiring faculty to raise minimum course sizes and teach more classes − for less and less funding. Unless we change those teaching and funding conditions, there are simply not enough faculty and too many students in our classrooms for blue books and declamations to be a practical solution. We also are not going back because handwritten essays and speeches were part of what college looked like in a very different world: the old liberal arts colleges of the early U.S. were for wealthy boys who would be preachers, lawyers, and gentleman scholars. The specialized workforce of today did not exist, nor did the many specialized work genres of today. If we go backward and assign handwritten essays and speeches, we might avoid cheating, but we are not preparing students for today's world of work. Writing in its many forms is how we get things done in the world (writing scholars say it "mediates activity"). But writing is not simply a final, polished product; it is also a means of learning. Through the act of writing, we come to understand our ideas and audiences in new ways. AI is a tool (or rather, AI presents writers with many tools), but writers need to understand how and why to use them (and when not to). The role of education at this moment is to create broadly literate students. Graduates need AI and technology literacy (among many other kinds of literacy) to understand how things work and why they work that way, and what the consequences are of inventing and adopting new tools (like AI). Providing this kind of education requires rethinking higher education altogether. Educators must face our current moment by teaching the students in front of us and designing learning environments that meet the times. Students are not cheating because of AI. When they are cheating, it is because of the many ways that education is no longer working as it should. But students using AI to cheat have perhaps hastened a reckoning that has been a long time coming for higher ed. Widespread cheating to get good grades, as one recent article alleges, is happening, and is the logical consequence of turning college into a factory that churns out workers. State legislators create policies that pressure colleges and universities to create more and more technical degrees with the sole goal of having majors that align with job titles. State funding models reward schools for producing graduates who have a high salary the first year out (as is the case in Ohio, for example, thanks to recent policy and legislation). These practices have led us all to where we are today. Yes, graduates should be able to get jobs, but the jobs of the future are going to belong to well-rounded critical thinkers who can innovate and solve hard problems. Every column I read by tech CEOs says this very thing, yet state funding policies continue to reward colleges for being technical job factories. College needs to be different. Teaching needs to be different. More: She lost her scholarship over an AI allegation — and it impacted her mental health I spend a lot of time helping faculty reimagine curricula and learning environments. Their sense of urgency for engaging in that work has certainly increased over the past two years. As one example, the center I direct at Miami University has been piloting an AI-informed Pedagogy Program to help faculty members explore what AI is, consider the ethical implications of using and developing it (including on climate and intellectual property), name their principles for using it, and then consider how to integrate it into their courses with clear policies and scaffolding. Faculty are eager to engage in this program. Colleges and universities need more of this kind of faculty development, but the necessary transformation of higher education at scale is going to take much more. Our cultural assumptions and legislative policies for funding higher education must also change. Practice follows policy and reward structures. Like roads and libraries, education is a public good. An educated population makes us all better. As a country, we need to decide if we want to fund that public good. And consider what sort of public good we need future graduates to provide. What do we want college graduates to be able to do and contribute to the world? How will our country support this vision? The days when school was about regurgitating to prove we memorized something are over. Information is readily available; we don't need to be able to memorize it. However, we do need to be able to assess it, think critically about it, and apply it. The education of tomorrow is about application and innovation. Those of us who study teaching, learning, and writing can chart a new path forward. For that to become a reality, however, higher education must be supported and funded to make something new. Elizabeth Wardle has served as the Roger and Joyce Howe Distinguished Professor of Written Communication and the Director of the Howe Center for Writing Excellence at Miami University in Oxford since 2016. She is the author of the book "Writing Rediscovered: Nine Concepts to Transform Your Relationship With Writing." This article originally appeared on Cincinnati Enquirer: Cheating in college with AI shows us our systems are broken | Opinion
Daily Mail
16 hours ago
- Sport
- Daily Mail
Japanese tennis star caught cheating on his wife of five years with a model issues awkward apology - days after withdrawing from Wimbledon
Japanese tennis star Kei Nishikori has reportedly issued an apology after being caught cheating on his wife of five years with a 21-year-old model, as per outlets in Japan. The former world No4 is the only Japanese man to have ranked in the top-five in singles in the Open Era, reaching the final of the US Open in 2014. The 35-year-old is one of the ATP Tour veterans but has struggled with persistent injury this season that has forced him to withdraw from both the French Open, and Wimbledon. Just two days after his withdrawal from the Championships however, Nishikori was forced to issue a public statement surrounding matters off the court. As per Shukan Bunshun, the world No61 is alleged to have had his years-long affair with Azuki Oguchi uncovered after he was photographed visiting her apartment. Nishikori married his wife Mai Yamaguchi - who is also known by her nickname Ako Mizuki in Japan - in 2020, five years after their relationship started. The couple celebrated another wedding free from Covid-19 restrictions in 2022 - the same year that Nishikori is alleged to have begun seeing Oguchi. 'I deeply apologise for causing discomfort to everyone who supports me: tennis fans, associations, sponsors, and other related parties, and for their concern and inconvenience due to my dishonest behavior,' Nishikori said in a statement this week. 'Additionally, I deeply regret making my wife and children feel hurt. 'Moving forward, in order to fulfill my role as a responsible member of society, I will focus solely on tennis competitions and achieving results. We will do everything possible to regain their trust.' As per the Japanese outlet, Nishikori and Oguchi met up in Honolulu just days before his 2022 wedding to Yamaguchi. A year later, Oguchi was alleged to have been confronted by her then-boyfriend over the relationship, with the unnamed partner also speaking to Nishikori after finding evidence of their relationship. The outlet claims that Nishikori engaged a lawyer in order to mediate and avoid a public scandal, with his relationship with Oguchi coming to an end shortly after. After allegedly resuming the affair last year, Nishikori is said to have told Oguchi that he 'no longer loves his wife' and that they are solely together for the sake of their children, aged four and under one year old. Nishikori and Oguchi were photographed together in pictures published by the outlet outside of the latter's apartment last week. The 35-year-old will hope to return to court ahead of the scene of his greatest Grand Slam achievement, the US Open in Flushing Meadows. Before his chance in SW19 was derailed by injury, the player had been enjoying a purple patch, reaching the final of the Hong Kong open at the start of the year. Nishikori also achieved his 450th career win on clay at the Madrid Open in April, becoming the first Asian player to do so, and only the eighth active man on the tour to have secured the honour.
Daily Mail
a day ago
- Entertainment
- Daily Mail
Brutally betrayed by her husband David Harbour, Lily Allen's next three moves have been pure genius. She's proved revenge is something money can't buy - and the timing is perfect: JANA HOCKING
Lily Allen just taught us all how to 'win' a breakup. No, seriously. She's won. After four years of marriage, her actor husband David Harbour – known primarily for Netflix TV series – allegedly cheated. Predictable. Grim. We've seen this film before. But Lily's next move was a masterclass.
The Sun
a day ago
- General
- The Sun
When I found myself caught up in a double life, you helped me find a way out
DEAR DEIDRE: THANK you for helping me untangle the double life that was destroying me bit by bit. When I first wrote to you, I was 45 and completely exhausted. I was juggling two lives – one with my girlfriend and our two young sons during the week and another with my wife and daughter every other weekend. Neither woman knew about the other. To outsiders, I seemed like a man with a demanding job in the city, balancing family and work. The truth was far messier. My wife, who I'd been married to for 15 years, came from a culture where divorce is heavily stigmatised. We hoped having a child would fix things between us, but it didn't. Years of unhappiness led me to take a job over 200 miles away. That's when I met my girlfriend online. She had everything that my marriage lacked – she was warm, funny, and kind. When she became pregnant, I made the choice to live with her. But I never properly ended my old life. I didn't know how to. By the time I reached out to you, I had two little boys I adored, a woman I loved, and a growing mountain of lies. My daughter, then nearly 10, was starting to ask questions. I barely slept. I was snapping at everyone and hated the man I'd become. You made it clear these secrets couldn't last forever and that my children deserved to hear the truth from me – not find it out in ways that would break their trust. You also reminded me that staying in a toxic marriage wasn't helping anyone. Dear Deidre: Cheating and can you get over it You encouraged me to come clean with my wife and get support. I contacted a counsellor through Tavistock Relationships ( 020 7380 1960) who helped us navigate the transition. With your advice, I stopped spiralling. I found a way forward that considered everyone's wellbeing – not just my guilt. My wife and I began the process of separation and have now officially divorced. It was painful, but also freeing. Your support pack Worried About Mum and Dad helped me talk to my daughter and protect our relationship through the changes. After years of stress and deception, I finally feel like I've become the father and man I want to be – to all my children. I still have a long road ahead, but at least I'm no longer living a lie. Thank you. DEIDRE SAYS: I'm so glad you reached out and shared your story. Living a double life can be incredibly stressful, but by opening up, you took the crucial first step toward honesty and healing. Your situation is one many people find themselves in, especially when cultural pressures make separation feel impossible. Keeping secrets often causes more harm than good, especially for children, who pick up on tensions even when adults try to hide them. By choosing to be honest and seeking support, you've given your children and yourself a chance at healthier, happier, more trusting relationships. Your story also highlights why it's so important to face difficult truths sooner rather than later. Avoiding the conversation might feel easier at the time, but it only prolongs the pain and uncertainty for everyone involved. Open communication, even when it's hard, lays the groundwork for healing and rebuilding trust within families and relationships. There is no perfect way to end something, but there is a responsible one, and you've now started down that path. Ask me and my counsellors anything Every problem get a personal and private reply from one of my trained counsellors within one working day. Sally Land is the Dear Deidre Agony Aunt. She achieved a distinction in the Certificate in Humanistic Integrative Counselling, has specialised in relationships and parenting. She has over 20 years of writing and editing women's issues and general features. Passionate about helping people find a way through their challenges, Sally is also a trustee for the charity Family Lives. Her team helps up to 90 people every week. Sally took over as The Sun's Agony Aunt when Deidre Sanders retired from the The Dear Deidre column four years ago. The Dear Deidre Team Of Therapists Also Includes: Kate Taylor: a sex and dating writer who is also training to be a counsellor. Kate is an advisor for dating website OurTime and is the author of five self-help books. Jane Allton: a stalwart of the Dear Deidre for over 20 years. Jane is a trained therapist, who specialises in family issues. She has completed the Basic Counselling Skills Level 1, 2, and 3. She also achieved the Counselling and Psychotherapy (CPCAB) Level 2 Certificate in Counselling Studies. Catherine Thomas: with over two decades worth of experience Catherine has also trained as a therapist, with the same credentials as Jane. She specialises in consumer and relationship issues. Fill out and submit our easy-to-use and confidential form and the Dear Deidre team will get back to you. You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page or email us at: deardeidre@
