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New York Times
5 hours ago
- Lifestyle
- New York Times
Drinking Glasses Are a Great Gift. Here Are 14 Truly Special Ones.
In this edition of The Gift, we dish on our favorite glassware for gifting. Plus: more ideas for a beautifully set table, a great deal on a 'holy grail' white T-shirt, and what to give a classroom helper. A few years ago, I was fresh off a breakup, living in a new place of my own. Everything around me was new: I was in an unfamiliar part of town, my bangs were freshly shortened (as is the age-old tradition of any breakup), and I was even starting a brand-new job — this one, actually. All this newness was by design. I thought that surrounding myself with novelty would speed up the process of dealing with the change I was most trying to ignore. I needed (or at least felt like buying) some new drinking glasses, and without thinking too much about it, I ordered a set of basic bistro-style cups, which came highly recommended by Wirecutter kitchen expert Michael Sullivan. When they arrived, though, I realized I had accidentally veered from my perfect plan of new-things-only. In my hands were the exact same drinking glasses I had grown up with. I had somehow cosmically stumbled toward an ever-present fixture of my childhood home. I tucked the glasses into my barren cabinets, and my new apartment suddenly felt more familiar. And familiarity felt surprisingly good. There is a quiet beauty in giving an elevated, everyday home item as a gift. Good glassware, for example, might delight your recipient in the gift-giving moment, maybe because it's unique, beautiful, or, as in my case, even a bit sentimental. But then? It just does its job, fading into the background of your recipient's life. Your giftee will hopefully use your present for years and years — and it can become a comforting fixture in their lives, just as these tumblers have been in mine. To that end, here are some truly special glasses, mugs, and cups that we think would make great gifts: If it's whimsy you're after, gifts expert Mari Uyehara loves these unique tumblers: these fruit and animal ones are catching our eyes in particular — and they have a new set of dog offerings (which are going to be a problem for me, personally). For impressing your coolest, most aesthetic friend, home-decor writer Ivy Elrod recommends these unique face vessels that are, as she puts it, 'nothing short of a true delight.' Each one is handcrafted, resulting in a one-of-a-kind, multi-colored, cheery, smiling face. Kitchen editor Gabriella Gershenson loves these colored coupe glasses for jazzing up cocktails and sparkling wine. 'I bought a pair for my husband for our anniversary. The blue tint is luminescent, and they're thin and wonderfully delicate,' she says. And for injecting a splash of color into your everyday drinking glasses, I'm eyeing the shorter, multi-colored version of my prized Duralex glasses. Your favorite beer aficionado might appreciate these glasses shaped like beer cans. They're simple, but something about drinking out of one might make you feel like you're grabbing dinner at your local brewery. And on a similar note, these Wirecutter-favorite Teku beer glasses are a nice way to class up your pizza-and-beer nights at home. (Or pizza-and-hop-water nights?) For a bit of a splurge, gifts editor Hannah Morrill is eyeing a few Japanese Kimura Glass vessels that are striking in their simplicity: This martini glass is, in her words, 'perfection.' They make coupe glasses, too, which Hannah says would be a great gift 'for the couple who enjoys a drink together every night.' And this crumpled old-fashioned glass would be good for a certain unwinds-in-their-armchair type. Let's not forget the morning joe: These porcelain tumblers look like crushed Solo cups — and when they're not busy moonlighting as a piece of home decor, would do well as a coffee cup by morning. This cheeky cup, the ceramic version of the classic New York City takeout coffee cup, doesn't look too shabby on display, either. I have one on my desk most days, and it somehow makes me feel sentimental for a place I've never lived. Wirecutter's guide to the best drinking glasses→ Whether you're setting a candlelit table for a party, a date with your honey, or mac and cheese for one, our favorites make any occasion feel special. From festive melamine and bamboo plates to classic enamelware, our favorite outdoor tableware pieces are perfect for taking dinner outside. These durable enamelware tumblers are ideal for outdoor dining, but they're also great indoors — whether on a desk, at a well-set dining table, or by your bedside. I'm a third-grade teacher. And I want to get something special and fun for my classroom TA as an end-of-the-year gift. He's been with my class since January and is so helpful, smart, and a joy to work with. I want to thank him with something fun for the summer, preferably something he can enjoy with his husband and their 8-year-old daughter. Thank you! — E.D. From gifting expert Mari Uyehara: For amusement, the storytelling card game Dixit is a fave of many Wirecutter staffers. I've played it with ages 7 to 77 years old many times over — and when we've tried it with kids' friends, we usually get a text from parents asking for the name of the game that their child is now evangelizing. My almost-8-year-old, crazy-smart niece is also a big fan of the Crazy Forts building set. On the noshing front, my boyfriend's tween daughter loves their air-popping popcorn machine; pair it with this excellent movie night what-should-we-watch solver. Multiple subsets of my extended family have had a blast tasting and debating our way through this sampler of hard-to-find Japanese snacks. If you can tease out your TA's address and freezer-space situation, this gift pack of hulking chip ice cream sandwiches would make for some magical summer nights. But if you're not sure of what's in their game room or kitchen, a Target or Dunkin' Donuts card is always a nice summer treat. And make sure you include a good-looking card telling him exactly what you valued about his work this year. As a teacher, I bet you already know how a little appreciation goes a very long way. Our present-hunters are here to answer your questions. By completing this form, you agree that we may add your address to our list for the newsletter The Gift. What I Cover Haley Jo Lewis is the lead editor of newsletters and programming for Wirecutter. She brings experience from the Los Angeles Times and The Seattle Times. When she's not writing newsletters, you can find her cooking, scouring the estate sales of Los Angeles, and spending time on her beloved sectional couch.
The Sun
8 hours ago
- Entertainment
- The Sun
Love Island couple SPLIT in ‘raw and emotional break up' – and it's all caught on camera
LOVE Island couple Elma Pazar and Sammy Root have SPLIT four months after leaving the villa. The pair, who found love on All Stars earlier this year, have decided to separate to work out issues in their relationship - but have not ruled out a reconciliation in the future. 5 5 Sammy, 24, and Elma, 32, who both star on the hit ITVBe show Towie, have filmed "raw and emotional" scenes for the new series, which will air on ITV2 and ITVX later this year. Viewers will get to see their break-up and the aftermath play out on screen, including how they navigate their relationship going forward. An insider told The Sun "Elma and Sammy aren't together right now, but there is a lot of love still between them. "It's not a straightforward split, viewers will see how Elma and Sammy navigate their feelings on Towie, as they discuss their issues to see whether they can make their relationship work going forward. "They have a strong connection with each other and nobody really knows what will happen with them over the coming weeks." The insider said that the pair, who are currently filming the new series of Towie, will have many heart-to-hearts on camera that will reveal the reasons behind their break-up. They added: "Throughout the series their story features some of the rawest and emotional reality ever shot for TOWIE." At the end of last series, Elma and Sammy were greeted by cheers from their Towie co-stars as they made their return to the show. The couple took a break from filming Towie while starring on Love Island All Stars. At the time, Elma revealed why she thought her relationship with Sammy was going to last after leaving the villa. Watch the moment Love Island's Sammy and Elma return to Towie - as couple reveal they've taken 'next step' in relationship She said: "We have not been in each other's pockets, which I think is very healthy. We have both gone back to our lives which is nice. "We have still got each other - we speak every single day, and I met his family. "Our families watched us for the last few weeks and probably feel like they know us inside out so it is nice for them to meet us properly." Elma first appeared on series five of Love Island in 2019 but was dumped after six days. She joined Towie in 2022. Sammy won the 2023 series of Love Island with ex-girlfriend Jess Harding. He made his Towie debut last year. Towie fans were delighted to see Sammy and Elma's romance blossom on All Stars and they went on to finish in fifth place. 5 5
Daily Mail
a day ago
- Entertainment
- Daily Mail
Brutally betrayed by her husband David Harbour, Lily Allen's next three moves have been pure genius. She's proved revenge is something money can't buy - and the timing is perfect: JANA HOCKING
Lily Allen just taught us all how to 'win' a breakup. No, seriously. She's won. After four years of marriage, her actor husband David Harbour – known primarily for Netflix TV series – allegedly cheated. Predictable. Grim. We've seen this film before. But Lily's next move was a masterclass.
Daily Mail
a day ago
- Lifestyle
- Daily Mail
EXCLUSIVE Decluttering expert shares vital tips to organizing your life and home after a messy breakup
Going through a breakup can be extremely stressful and in the aftermath, you may feel like your life has been turned upside down. In some cases you have to get rid of the home you shared and move somewhere new, if you have a joint bank account you'll have to separate your finances, and of course, there's figuring out who gets what when it comes to furniture and possessions. It's certainly a messy and exhausting process, all while you're grappling with the heartbreak of losing your significant other. Thankfully, decluttering expert Lesley Spellman, 51, has shared vital tips to organizing your life, mind, and home post-breakup exclusively with the Daily Mail. She broke down the steps you should take to make the whole process easier, and revealed how you can ultimately turn it into a positive thing. Spellman - co-founder of The Declutter Hub and co-author of the upcoming book Reset Your Home: Unpack Your Emotions and Your Clutter, Step by Step alongside Ingrid Jansen - explained that the end of a relationship can actually be a great opportunity for a 'fresh start' if you go about it in the right way. 'Just like decluttering your home, sorting through the remnants of a relationship is hard work,' she explained. 'But when you're done, you're left with a clear, organized, and energized space to build the next, wonderful chapter of your life. And that's a pretty amazing feeling. Thankfully, decluttering expert Lesley Spellman, 51, has shared vital tips to organizing your life, mind, and home post-breakup exclusively with the Daily Mail 'What if you viewed the process of separating your lives as a form of decluttering? Clearing the clutter is a powerful way to create space for your brand new beginning. 'It often gets worse before it gets better, but the end result is a clear space and a fresh start.' With over a decade of experience in helping thousands regain control of their lives and homes, here are Spellman's top tips to navigating life after a breakup. Don't rush into any decisions Spellman pointed out that many people are tempted to 'rush' after a breakup to get rid of all the painful memories as quickly as possible. Getting on top of stuff quickly may feel like you're back in control, but in reality, moving too fast can hurt you in the long run. She recommended taking your time and spending a moment to breathe before making any rash decisions. 'When a relationship ends, especially if it's a shock, the temptation is to rush,' explained the expert. 'You might feel an urgent need to start making calls, moving things, and getting the legal wheels in motion because it feels like you're taking control,' she said. '[My] number one piece of advice? This is not a race. There isn't a rush.' 'You might feel an urgent need to start making calls, moving things, and getting the legal wheels in motion because it feels like you're taking control. '[My] number one piece of advice? This is not a race. There isn't a rush.' Spellman pointed out that those who are feeling hurt, betrayed, or angry might not make the best decisions. 'You need to be in the best emotional state you can possibly be in before you start making life-changing choices,' she added. 'Give yourself time, at least a couple of weeks at least, to just process. 'Find your support system and give yourself the space to navigate things emotionally before you start the practical tasks.' Focus on finances first It may be hard to know where to start, but according to Spellman, the first thing you should focus on is your finances. 'When you do feel ready to do something productive, a great place to start is by gathering your financial paperwork,' she said. 'Think of it as a decluttering project with a clear goal!' Anyone going through a divorce should gather bank statements and pay slips from the last 12 months, your latest credit card statement, a current overview of your mortgage and your pension, and any life insurance, critical illness, or income protection documents. She also recommended having three realtors give you a valuation on your home or any other properties you own. 'You only need to gather documents that are in your name or in joint names,' Spellman added. 'Organize everything into neat folders on your computer. Future you will be incredibly grateful for this bit of organized calm amidst the chaos.' Prioritize sentimental items while diving your stuff Many couples have a hard time dividing their stuff, and the process often leads to arguments about who gets what. Spellman recommended that you 'prioritize' items that have 'genuine sentimental value' to you rather than furniture that can easily be replaced. And she reminded those going through a split to pick their battles, and not go to the mat over something you really won't care about in the long run. 'Don't sweat the small stuff. For the most part, things are just things,' she explained. 'They can be replaced. Ask yourself, "Will I miss this in a year's time?" If the answer is no, consider letting it go. 'Avoid point scoring: Don't argue over something just to annoy your ex. 'You'll have enough to deal with without adding pointless arguments to the mix.' In the end, Spellman said you should remind yourself that although it feels difficult now, this can be a positive thing in the end. 'Going through a separation is tough, but it's also an incredible opportunity for a fresh start,' she concluded. 'The best thing about being single? You get to make all the decisions. The worst thing? You have to make all the decisions! 'But that freedom is powerful. You can design a life that looks exactly how you want it to, without compromise.'
News.com.au
2 days ago
- Entertainment
- News.com.au
Nathan Buckley's ex opens up about ‘horrible' split
Brodie Ryan has opened up about her split from Collingwood legend Nathan Buckley, admitting that she was left heartbroken. 'The first few months were hard, and breakups are always horrible,' she told the Herald Sun on Thursday. 'Time heals all wounds. The heartbreak is real, but we'll both be okay.' The 36-year-old revealed she had intended to be a housewife, and was disappointed that the plans were no longer in effect. 'I wanted that responsibility and revelled in that of being a housewife and a little family's support, but unfortunately it didn't end the way I'd hoped,' she said. In April this year, Ryan said her goal for this year was to focus on herself, telling the Herald Sun, 'Focusing on mental health and the stable lifestyle that I'm used to, and doing things that make me happy. That's my plan for 2025 … to focus on me.' The pair, who met in 2022 and have a 16-year age gap, have been an item since 2022. Ryan shared the news of their split in an Instagram story in May this year. 'After much reflection and consideration, Nath and I have decided to part ways,' she said. 'This decision was not made lightly, and we are grateful for the time we shared, the memories we created, and the support we received from each other.' In Ryan's lengthy post, she also thanked supporters for their kind messages 'over the past couple of months of heartache', and said she will always have respect for Nathan and 'a lot of love for him and his boys and our beautiful dog Tank'. Buckley, 52, did not share the same message to his social media platforms. AFL legend Buckley separated from his wife Tania Buckley, with whom he shares two children, in 2020 and in a candid interview a few years later referred to his marriage breakdown as 'the most traumatic thing that's happened to me recently'. 'Whilst it was a bloody tough period, I learnt a lot about being more open, being more vulnerable and that I actually couldn't hold it all in,' he told the Herald Sun. 'At the same point, my footy family, and then close friends, just rose to the surface. I'd never really understood the absolute value of friendship until I had nowhere else to turn, and I needed them.'
