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A Norwegian man awoke to find a grounded cargo ship had narrowly missed his home

A Norwegian man awoke to find a grounded cargo ship had narrowly missed his home

Washington Post23-05-2025

OSLO, Norway — A Norwegian man awoke to find that a cargo ship had run aground and narrowly missed crashing into his home along the Trondheim Fjord's coast.
Johan Helberg told Norwegian broadcaster NRK that he'd slept through the whole thing and only woke up when a neighbor started ringing his doorbell.

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