Maine Coon Cat Mom Enlists Auntie to Help Raise Newborn Kittens and Everyone's Hearts Are Melting

Sometimes, it really does take a village to raise children, er, kittens, and no one knows this better than this mama Maine Coon cat who has a sister willing to help with her newborn litter. If mama needs a break, auntie is here for the backup!
Just look at this beautiful blended family of Maine Coon Cats and how both mama cats tend to these little ones.
In the darling video shared to the TikTok account for @wildmane_mainecoons, we see mama-to-be Stormy, the auntie, who is also going to have her own kittens helping out with baby kitten duty. Stormy is so affectionate towards mama Honey, too!
People love this sweet co-parenting scenario, and one person commented, "Her helping with the babies and momma allowing her to do so - melts me!" Another person added, "The way the other cat hugged her after seen how she was bathing her babies." It's just too sweet for words!Someone else added, "My bff's two mama cats (sisters) had their babies within days of each other. They both co-parented their kittens." It's pretty common with cats that are raised together to help each other out when one of them has kittens!
If your own cat is expecting kittens, make sure they have a quiet place to give birth away from other pets in the house. Mama cats need extra nutrition for nursing, so consult your veterinarian about the best type and amount of food for her. Make sure she always has access to clean and fresh water, and an easy-to-climb-into litter box within reach.
If your cat isn't pregnant and you aren't an ethical cat breeder, please consider getting them fixed to help control the pet population.
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