Tell Us: Worst LGBTQ+ TV/Movie Scenes Of All Time
Hello, fellow gays, and happy Pride! If you're anything like me, you've probably watched quite a few TV shows or movies simply because they (or a beloved character in them) are gay, and you've seen people talking about them online, like, a billion times. And, as you probably know, whether it's actually good representation or not can be absolutely hit or miss. So, let's talk about it!
I wanna know what LGBTQ+ TV or movie scene absolutely missed the mark for you. Whether it was bad, misguided representation, or just for the sake of a stereotype and a punchline, we wanna hear about it.
Perhaps you love Santana from Glee, but you wish the show had steered clear of some of its more bi-phobic scenes like this one:
Or perhaps you thought that Buffy the Vampire Slayer took two steps forward and five steps back when they perpetuated the whole "bury your gays" trope with Willow and Tara.
Whatever it is, we wanna hear about it! In the comments below or via this anonymous form, tell us a) the scene, b) what show it's from, and c) why you think it's the worst. Your submission might just end up in a future BuzzFeed Community post!
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