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Yahoo
a day ago
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The kindness of strangers: a gentle flight attendant made me feel I wasn't alone
I'd completely forgotten it was my little sister's 40th birthday, so that morning I hurriedly arranged to send some flowers to her house. She died before she could receive them. My sister died at 11am and I got a text from the florist saying they'd delivered the flowers at 11.30am – how ridiculous. They must have sat on her doorstep for days. I got the call as I was walking through the doors at Emerald airport in Queensland, about to fly home to Brisbane. My stepdad rang me and said, 'I need to talk to you about something – your sister's died.' I was like, 'What? What do you mean?' I told him I was about to hop on a plane home and that I'd call him when I got on the ground. I hung up, stunned. I kind of held it together until we had to walk out to the airstrip, when I realised I was walking towards my sister's death. It was horrible. I sat down on the plane, sobbing. One of the flight attendants knelt down next to me and asked if there was anything he could do to help. I said, 'My sister has just died, I don't think anyone can help.' He just held my hand and said, 'We'll get you back to Brisbane.' Related: The kindness of strangers: I was crying at the airport carousel, then a couple offered a simple solution He didn't try to tell me everything will be all right, because it clearly wouldn't have been. Just, 'We'll get you back to Brisbane.' Throughout the flight he brought my water, checked in on me and helped me get off the plane quickly when we landed. One might say that's his job. But it wasn't, actually. It was so above and beyond what he needed to do as cabin crew, especially on a short flight where everyone's just trying to get it over and done with. He was really gentle, kind and sweet. If he hadn't been there I would have just sat there sobbing on my own – certainly the person sitting next to me didn't engage at all, not that I blame them for that. The flight attendant made me feel as though I wasn't alone on that plane. When I think about my sister now, I think of him. If you're having trouble using the form click . Read terms of service and privacy policy
The Guardian
a day ago
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- The Guardian
The kindness of strangers: a gentle flight attendant made me feel I wasn't alone
I'd completely forgotten it was my little sister's 40th birthday, so that morning I hurriedly arranged to send some flowers to her house. She died before she could receive them. My sister died at 11am and I got a text from the florist saying they'd delivered the flowers at 11.30am – how ridiculous. They must have sat on her doorstep for days. I got the call as I was walking through the doors at Emerald airport in Queensland, about to fly home to Brisbane. My stepdad rang me and said, 'I need to talk to you about something – your sister's died.' I was like, 'What? What do you mean?' I told him I was about to hop on a plane home and that I'd call him when I got on the ground. I hung up, stunned. I kind of held it together until we had to walk out to the airstrip, when I realised I was walking towards my sister's death. It was horrible. I sat down on the plane, sobbing. One of the flight attendants knelt down next to me and asked if there was anything he could do to help. I said, 'My sister has just died, I don't think anyone can help.' He just held my hand and said, 'We'll get you back to Brisbane.' He didn't try to tell me everything will be all right, because it clearly wouldn't have been. Just, 'We'll get you back to Brisbane.' Throughout the flight he brought my water, checked in on me and helped me get off the plane quickly when we landed. One might say that's his job. But it wasn't, actually. It was so above and beyond what he needed to do as cabin crew, especially on a short flight where everyone's just trying to get it over and done with. He was really gentle, kind and sweet. If he hadn't been there I would have just sat there sobbing on my own – certainly the person sitting next to me didn't engage at all, not that I blame them for that. The flight attendant made me feel as though I wasn't alone on that plane. When I think about my sister now, I think of him. From making your day to changing your life, we want to hear about chance encounters that have stuck with you. Your contact details are helpful so we can contact you for more information. They will only be seen by the Guardian. Your contact details are helpful so we can contact you for more information. They will only be seen by the Guardian. If you're having trouble using the form click here. Read terms of service here and privacy policy here
The Sun
2 days ago
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My stepdad has been keeping a secret stash of deep fake naked photos of me – and he sends them to his mates
1 DEAR DEIDRE: DISCOVERING that my stepdad has a secret stash of naked images of me that he's been sharing with his mates has completely unsettled me. The images are deeply troubling; they are all snaps taken of me, by my mum from holidays or days out over the years. He has then run them through an app to make me look naked. I was so shocked when I saw the images that I confronted him straight away. He didn't really have an explanation. He simply said he'd heard about the app and thought it wouldn't work but was curious and tried it anyway. I'm 24 now and my stepdad has been in my life for 12 years when he and my mum met. My dad had left when I was a toddler and didn't want any part of my life so I was really pleased that my stepdad showed an interest. We have always had a pretty good relationship but even though I realise the naked body isn't mine it still feels like such a betrayal. My stepdad picked me up from a late night out. It was about 1 am in the morning and when we got home we put some cheese and toast on, as is our tradition. He was sorting out the grill when I noticed tonnes of notifications on his mobile which he'd left on the table. Curious, I slid the phone over and saw loads of comments like 'so hot', 'lucky you' and 'perfection'. I easily guessed his code and then the room started to spin when I realised all these men were referring to naked images of me. My stepdad broke out in a sweat when he returned to find me frozen in shock and started muttering that it was just a silly mistake and I should forget about it. Dear Deidre on relationships, jealousy and envy I don't know how I managed it but I got back in the car with him and he drove me home. I've avoided him for the past few weeks and now I'm accelerating my plan of moving out because I can't bear to be near him. But I'm so worried about my mum. How can I tell her what her now husband has done? Wouldn't I be better off finding my own place and avoiding him than ruining everything? DEIDRE SAYS: Your stepdad has completely betrayed you and left you feeling responsible for his appalling behaviour. Now you are even considering a complete relocation, to avoid any confrontation. Firstly your biological father abandoned you. And now your stepdad, a man you hoped would right the wrongs of your biological father, has let you down badly. It seems your step dad has been exchanging these deep fake images of you with acquaintances. Your stepdad may want you to believe that this was 'just a silly mistake' but creating deepfake nudes, using AI technology to depict people in sexually explicit situations and then spreading and sharing them online is deeply troubling. Your stepdad could well be liable for prosecution as exchanging these images online amounts to abuse. I'm sure you have already started to worry what else your stepdad may have hidden away and you'll no doubt be looking back over your life with a whole new perspective and you'll be questioning everything. I know you are worried about telling your mum, but that really is the best thing you can do. Give her the opportunity to support you and help you find a way forward. You deserve that. You can get support from the Revenge Porn Helpline ( And I'm sorry but as your stepdad has shared these images online they may have ended up on adult sites. Please get in contact with Take It Down (takeit d to learn how you can get these images removed. Dear Deidre's Porn Files Deidre's mailbag is stashed full with porn problems. One reader struggled to manage his addiction to racy videos, a different subscriber wrote in because she was being blackmailed with deep fake images by a work colleague, while one man decided to post sexy photos of his wife online. THE LAW: AI DEEP FAKE PORN AI deep fake pornography – where someone's face is digitally superimposed onto a sexualised or explicit body – is one of the fastest-growing and most insidious forms of image-based abuse. These images are often created without the victim's knowledge or consent, and unlike traditional forms of sexual exploitation, they don't require the person to have ever posed nude or even been photographed in a compromising way. The intent is rarely innocent – it's about humiliation, control, or sexual gratification without permission. Until recently, this type of abuse sat outside the boundaries of UK law. But the Online Safety Act 2023 has made it a criminal offence to share explicit deepfake content without the subject's consent. This includes any image or video where a person appears to be engaged in a sexual act or shown nude, regardless of whether it's been digitally manipulated. However, creating or possessing AI-generated nudes – if not shared – remains legally ambiguous. Police response has so far been inconsistent, and many victims report struggling to have their cases taken seriously, especially when the perpetrator is someone they know. Though the images aren't 'real' in the traditional sense, the harm they cause is tangible and can have a lasting impact. Victims report symptoms commonly associated with trauma: shame, anxiety, paranoia, social withdrawal and fear of further exposure. The knowledge that someone – often a colleague, friend, or even family member – has sexualised them without consent is deeply violating and can be traumatic. This is about more than just new technology; it's about power, entitlement and control. AI is simply the tool. The intent is to dehumanise and sexualise without permission. Ask me and my counsellors anything Every problem get a personal and private reply from one of my trained counsellors within one working day. Sally Land is the Dear Deidre Agony Aunt. She achieved a distinction in the Certificate in Humanistic Integrative Counselling, has specialised in relationships and parenting. She has over 20 years of writing and editing women's issues and general features. Passionate about helping people find a way through their challenges, Sally is also a trustee for the charity Family Lives. Her team helps up to 90 people every week. Sally took over as The Sun's Agony Aunt when Deidre Sanders retired from the The Dear Deidre column four years ago. The Dear Deidre Team Of Therapists Also Includes: Kate Taylor: a sex and dating writer who is also training to be a counsellor. Kate is an advisor for dating website OurTime and is the author of five self-help books. Jane Allton: a stalwart of the Dear Deidre for over 20 years. Jane is a trained therapist, who specialises in family issues. She has completed the Basic Counselling Skills Level 1, 2, and 3. She also achieved the Counselling and Psychotherapy (CPCAB) Level 2 Certificate in Counselling Studies. Catherine Thomas: with over two decades worth of experience Catherine has also trained as a therapist, with the same credentials as Jane. She specialises in consumer and relationship issues. Fill out and submit our easy-to-use and confidential form and the Dear Deidre team will get back to you. You can also send a private message on the DearDeidreOfficial Facebook page or email us at: deardeidre@
Yahoo
15-06-2025
- Entertainment
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Gwen Stefani Celebrates Husband Blake Shelton and Dad Dennis on Father's Day: ‘We Love U So Much'
Gwen Stefani celebrated husband Blake Shelton and her father Dennis Stefani in a Father's Day Instagram post 'We love u so much,' Gwen wrote on Sunday, June 15 Shelton is the stepfather of Stefani's three sons, whom she shares with ex-husband Gavin RossdaleGwen Stefani is taking time to honor the father figures in her life. On Sunday, June 15, the singer, 55, shared a Father's Day tribute on Instagram, which included photos of her with her dad, Dennis Stefani, and her husband, Blake Shelton. Shelton is the stepfather of Gwen's three boys. 'Happy Father's day ... we love u so much,' she wrote in the caption. Gwen shares Kingston, 19, Zuma, 16, and Apollo, 11 with ex-husband Gavin Rossdale. Shelton, 48, has helped raise the boys over the years. View this post on Instagram A post shared by Gwen Stefani (@gwenstefani) During an interview with KFROG's The Ride with Kimo & Heather in 2021, the country singer shared he "can't imagine life without these kids now." "I have a stepfather in my life who's one of my heroes," Shelton added . "I love my stepfather and I look up to him and he's like a father to me, so I have a good inspiration in my life for how to do this and the kind of stepdad I want to be. And I take it very serious." Never miss a story -- sign up for to stay up-to-date on the best of what PEOPLE has to offer, from juicy celebrity news to compelling human interest stories. A source told PEOPLE that before Shelton proposed in 2020, the country singer asked for Stefani's sons' approval. The source added that Shelton is "an amazing partner and a great extra dad to the boys." Last year on Father's Day, Stefani shared a video of glimpses of her and Shelton's household — from their children's colorful drawings to cute clips of the boys embracing their stepfather — set to the tune of their duet, "Happy Anywhere." is now available in the Apple App Store! Download it now for the most binge-worthy celeb content, exclusive video clips, astrology updates and more! "And a very happy Father's Day to @blakeshelton," Stefani wrote in the post's caption. "We love u so much!!" The pair initially met in 2014 when they were both judges on The Voice, when they were both going through respective divorces. They started dating one year later, and Shelton proposed in October 2020. The couple tied the knot at Shelton's Tishomingo ranch in Oklahoma on July 3, 2021. Read the original article on People
Yahoo
15-06-2025
- Entertainment
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120+ Nicknames for Stepdads That Stand Out in the Best Way
Anybody can have a baby, but it takes a real man to be a father. When it comes to dads, you hit the jackpot with your stepdad. He has been by your side through good times and bad, so honor him with a nickname that highlights how dear he is to you. Your stepdad has added a wonderful layer of love to your life, so let him know that you adore him with a sweet daddy nickname. My Main Guy Step-Daddio Step-Dude Mom's Man Papa Bear Step Bear Big Guy Step Guy Daddy Poppins Dadaroo Mr. Man Pops Paps Papa Pal Buddy Mate MD - stands for my dad Popsie Popsicle DD - stands for dear dad Odie - a combination of "other" and "dad" Old Faithful Pop Tart Stops - a combination of Step and Pops Hands - always there to hold Pop Rocks Step-Smiles Care Bear Super Steps S.P. - stand for step parent In your family, your stepfather rules with a steady hand and heart. He is the boss, so let his nickname reflect his role. Chief King of the Fam Coach Leader Honcho Alpha Dad Wardad - a combination of Warden and dad Gov - short for governor Cap - short for Captain Step Boss Commander Mav - short for Maverick Prince Pops Daster - a combination of Dad and Master Sage - because he is always ready with the advice Mr. Fix-It Knight - in shining armor, of course Exec Second in Command - mom is first, clearly Alpha Wolf PM - project manager (and this family can be a project for sure) North Star Doc Sarge Step-Compass Anchor The most wonderful thing about your relationship with your stepfather is that the two of you are fun pals who can joke around. Gift him with a nickname that is as funny as he is. Bonus Dad My Plus One Old Man Saint - because some days he truly is a saint for putting up with your antics Hot Stepper Duddy - combination of daddy and dude Daddy-cakes Homedad - instead of 'homedawg" Griz - for a stepdad who is like a big grizzly bear Dadinator - play on The Terminator Popstar - because he is a poppa and a rockstar Re-Dad Dadzilla Dadasaur Rad - a rad dad indeed Dad 2.0 Wonder Dad Mom's Helper Baddy - he is always up for mischief and practical jokes Faddy - the fun dad Joke Killer - dad jokes are the worst MOS - mean old stepdad, which he is clearly not Grumps Couch BFF - you can always find him there The Assistant - just ask mom Daddycakes Mac Daddy Papadoo Popdilly Sparky Use your step-father's first name to give you fun nickname inspiration. Here are a few suggestions based on common male names. Dadam - for a stepfather named Adam Maddy - for a stepdad named Matt Stad - for a stepfather named Stan Rad - for a stepfather who has a name that starts with "R" Poppa "first letter of dad's name" - examples: Poppa D, Poppa M, Poppa L Stom - Tom Charles in Charge Danthony - Anthony Step-ven - Steven Gar-Bear - Gary Darry - Larry Deter - Peter Muhammdad - Muhammad If you have two dads whom you love equally, then consider calling your biological father, "dad," and your stepdad also "dad," just in another language! These words mean father from around the world. Choose one that coincides with your stepdad's culture or heritage. Taytay - Filipino Baba - East African Babbo - Italian Abba - Hebrew Tad - Welsh Otec - Slovakian Pitar - Farsi Pabbi - Icelandic Isa - Estonian Pai - Portuguese Tata - Romanian Athair - Irish Otosan - Japanese Vader - Flemish Tevs - Latvian Janik - Sanskrit Pare - Venetian Oho -Lao Appa - Korean Edoda - Cherokee Tato - Ukrainian Banketi - German Buwa - Nepali Patri -Sicilian Bapa - Indonesian Mon Père - French Papi - Spanish for daddy When considering a nickname for anyone, including stepfathers, you will want to make sure that first and foremost, the name is special and full of meaning. Make sure nicknames are personalized and precious to you and the person you are naming. Also, funny nicknames may not be so humorous to others as they are to you. If you land on a funny nickname, be sure to consider if it sounds offensive to other ears. Nicknames should never be meant to cause hurt or ill feelings.
