Latest news with #smalltalk
Irish Times
13-06-2025
- General
- Irish Times
The sound of silence
Sir, – What a lovely piece by Céire Sadlier (' I spend a lot of time with men. It's taught me to enjoy the silence ,' June 11th). As an Irish person it has taken me some time and practice becoming comfortable in silence and refraining from filling each conversational lull with mindless chatter. It also reminded me of a quip my father used to mutter: 'The only thing worse than awkward silence is small talk'. – Yours, etc, JAMES O'ROURKE, READ MORE Canada.
RNZ News
26-05-2025
- Science
- RNZ News
The Science of Conversation and the Art of Being Ourselves
science life and society 41 minutes ago Talk isn't cheap, it's powerful. The right conversation can build trust, foster belonging, and show people they matter. But as Harvard's Dr. Alison Wood Brooks has found, sometimes we're just not that great at it. Her new book offers practical advice on how to prep and master small talk, and how to really listen. It's called Talk: The Science of Conversation and the Art of Being Ourselves.
Washington Post
23-05-2025
- Science
- Washington Post
How to boost happiness with just a minute of small talk
Well+Being How to boost happiness with just a minute of small talk May 23, 2025 | 7:22 PM GMT Several studies have shown that brief social interactions with strangers can make us happier and increase our sense of belonging. In a 2014 study, researchers at the University of Chicago Booth School of Business asked people to talk to strangers on the train. Many thought that their fellow commuters wouldn't be open to conversation. But in the experiment, both parties felt more positive after interacting with each other.
Forbes
23-05-2025
- Business
- Forbes
Smart Leaders Know When To Skip The Small Talk—Here's Why
When leaders use small talk with purpose, it connects. When they don't, it distracts. How do you prevent small talk during meetings so it doesn't run over time? You feel the pain. The Zoom meeting opens with five minutes of discussions about weekend plans. Team members become overexcited about their fantasy football teams, or individuals chat about the latest Netflix hit. It's friendly. It's harmless. But by the third meeting of the day, it starts to feel like deja vu. Small talk is baked into workplace culture as a signal of approachability. It's a tool for leaders to build rapport. But when every conversation begins with pleasantries, momentum suffers. Focus drifts. People scream on the inside when a meeting that could have been an email runs over, especially on a Friday afternoon. Studies are showing that small talk improves collaboration. Workers feel that they belong and enjoy the office 'gossip.' KU News reported that one-third of our speech is derived from small talk. In leadership, it's a surprisingly potent tool. Done well, it sets a cultural tone. When a leader takes a moment to ask about someone's weekend or comment on a shared interest, it humanizes their role. However, 74% of people struggle to make light conversation with coworkers, according to an article in the New York Post. Forty percent of Gen Z prefer communicating online using WhatsApp rather than chatting in meetings. When every meeting opens with a five-minute chat, multiply that by five meetings daily, and you've just lost 25 minutes of strategic execution. This paradox presents a critical question for leaders: how can they balance relational warmth with operational clarity? Leaders who show genuine interest in employees' lives often score higher in employee satisfaction and engagement metrics. These micro-interactions act as deposits in a trust bank that leaders can draw on during high-stress moments. Fast-paced organizations with complex situations require employees to make decisions quickly. Engaging in excessive small talk reveals hesitation. It also shows an insufficient sense of urgency because it is a protective mechanism for uncomfortable discussions. Small talk builds bridges until it becomes a traffic jam. Executives now use a direct communication approach, which omits all small talk. The purpose of this approach is to value everyone's time and make the execution strategy clear. Prominent leaders such as Satya Nadella, Microsoft CEO, and the late Andy Grove, CEO of Intel, have consistently promoted the need for direct and meaningful communication during meetings. Running this type of meeting requires acknowledging that everyone has much to say. Then, highlight the time crunch that team members face. A simple 'Let's jump in. I know we're tight on time' communicates efficiency and empathy. Small talk is a great tool for specific occasions like individual meetings and team retreats because these situations focus on relationship building rather than decision-making. Smart leaders don't eliminate small talk. They schedule it. Here's how they manage it: Small talk, when unchecked, becomes conversational clutter. Leaders who master the art of knowing when to connect and when to cut to the chase gain a distinct edge. These leaders earn trust without wasting time.
Wall Street Journal
15-05-2025
- General
- Wall Street Journal
This Potato Salad Recipe Will Send You Straight to the Top of Everyone's Guest List
Social gatherings used to be so easy. All you had to do was climb the ranks of society, master the art of small talk, strap on multiple constrictive layers and know which of twenty-four utensils to use. Today, as we navigate very-casual dinner parties, cookouts, backyard hangs, holiday gatherings and movie nights, it's far more stressful due to four loaded words: 'What can I bring?' Bringing a dish to a party is not a competition, but it also kind of is. Everyone wants theirs to be the one that spurs second helpings and whispers of 'Did you try that?!'
