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Daily Mail
8 hours ago
- Health
- Daily Mail
Cruel eczema makes my face swell up and covers my body in a raw rash. Then I discovered the game-changing ways to control it - and now my skin looks like THIS
You know how it goes. You look amazing at 3pm on a Wednesday when no one's around, but the second you need to leave the house for something important, your skin decides to have a meltdown. That's my experience anyway. And in my case, by meltdown I mean an eczema flare-up of epic proportions.
News24
17 hours ago
- Entertainment
- News24
Nomcebo Zikode quietly welcomes a baby and teases new music
Vocalist Nomcebo Zikode is now a mom of three. She prioritises her selfcare by praying, going to the gym and cooking with her family. Nomcebo chose to keep her pregnancy from the public eye to protect her peace. _____________________________________________________________________ Nomcebo Zikode's family just got bigger! The Grammy Award-winning Jerusalema vocalist has just given birth to a healthy baby boy and is putting her efforts into focusing on her newborn and spending time with her two older children and husband. 'I am so happy. It's as if this is my first child whatsoever, my first baby,' Nomcebo gushes to TRUELOVE. Many are familiar with Nomcebo folk hits and soulful vocals that have since resonated with South Africa and the world at large, earning her a Grammy Award in 2023 for her vocals on Zakes Bantwini and Wouter Kellerman's Bayethe. But she is intentional about protecting her and her family's peace through the highs and lows of being in the spotlight. She takes us through how she prioritises her selfcare. 'I am a praying woman, I pray a lot. Not really a lot, but I do take God very seriously. I know that in everything, I need to put God first. And also I do go to the gym because I understand that exercising will help me with so many things, like health-wise, also, with my mind.' View this post on Instagram A post shared by Nomcebo Zikode (@nomcebo_zikode) On how she chooses to spend time with her family, Nomcebo tells us, 'I always try by all means to have time with my family, even though sometimes I'm just forced to be outside the country for the longest time, but whenever I'm at home, I'll try by all means to maybe cook for them. 'Even though we do go out but I think it's more beautiful when maybe I'm together with them in the kitchen, I'm cooking for them.' The iZono Zami hitmaker is focused on her growing family, especially after dealing with a trying few months in the spotlight with the highly publicised court case against Open Mic Productions for unpaid royalties for her contributions to Jerusalema. Through it all, Nomcebo is intentional about putting her family first and protecting hers and their peace. View this post on Instagram A post shared by Nomcebo Zikode (@nomcebo_zikode) Nomcebo shares, 'Now that I'm in the industry, I've noticed that sometimes you put things out there because you are trying to be genuine. But sometimes people will use that against you one day. So, I don't know whether I should say I'm private about it because it's not like I have a problem for people to know I've got a little one now. 'But also the way I see social media ... sometimes you put something out there thinking that you are doing the right thing and there's nothing to hide, you are pregnant or whatsoever. But sometimes silly people will just use that against you. So, I don't know whether I should say I'm keeping it private or what, but I just chose that, let me just keep it for myself, this is for me.' The 39-year-old singer still has plans to release new music, 'Even though there's some few things that I need to sort out,' Nomcebo reveals. While Nomcebo is keeping her cards close to her chest when it comes to future collaborations, she promises soulful tunes 'from the heart'. View this post on Instagram A post shared by Nomcebo Zikode (@nomcebo_zikode)
Daily Mail
18 hours ago
- Health
- Daily Mail
The simple lifestyle changes helping midlife men have better sex than in their 20s and avoid ED... and you don't need blue pills or TRT
When you reach midlife, it can suddenly seem like all the things that kept you fit and well in your younger years are no longer cutting it. Well, you're not imagining it.
Yahoo
20 hours ago
- General
- Yahoo
15 Red Flags You're Wasting Time On The Wrong Relationship
Relationships can be the ultimate double-edged sword: they either lift you up or drag you down. While everyone wants to be in love, sometimes we find ourselves stuck in a relationship that's more of a time-suck than a source of joy. Maybe you're thinking, 'Is this all there is?' If you're on the fence about your relationship, here are some red flags to look for. Trust your gut; it's usually right. Every time you find yourself making excuses for their actions, it's like adding another straw to the camel's back. You might say, 'They didn't mean it,' or 'They're just stressed,' but deep down, you know that a pattern is emerging. Dr. John Gottman, a renowned psychologist, notes that dismissing problematic behavior leads to emotional distance, an early marker of relationship failure. When your partner's actions become a puzzle you have to solve daily, it's a sign that you're pouring energy into an unsolvable mystery. Think about how often you've had to defend them to your friends or family. If your circle is seeing red flags and you're providing a laundry list of justifications, you might be in denial. A relationship should empower you, not leave you playing defense every time someone questions your integrity. It's not your job to be their PR manager; they should be able to stand on their own. Remember when you had dreams and ambitions that didn't revolve around someone else's needs? If pursuing your goals feels like a guilty pleasure rather than a priority, it's a glaring red flag. Your partner should be someone who encourages you to chase your dreams, not someone who feels threatened by your success. When your aspirations seem to have shrunk to fit their comfort zone, it's time for a reality check. Consider how often you've postponed plans or shifted priorities to accommodate them. This might be a subtle drift, happening over months or even years, until one day you wake up and wonder where your ambitions went. A healthy relationship should be a partnership where both parties are thriving, not just one person. If you're not growing, you're stagnating, and that's not a place you want to be. The irony of feeling isolated when together is both striking and painful. Loneliness in a relationship is like a silent scream, and ignoring it doesn't make it disappear. According to a study from the University of California, feeling connected in a relationship significantly impacts your mental health and overall well-being. If your partner is in the room but feels miles away, you need to re-evaluate what you're truly getting out of this partnership. When every shared moment feels strained and conversations lack depth, it's like living in a perpetual state of awkward silence. You deserve a partner who truly sees you, not someone who makes you feel like an afterthought. Real intimacy is about being known and cherished, not about proximity. Don't settle for the façade of connection when there's no substance behind it. Being in a relationship shouldn't feel like navigating a minefield. If you constantly edit yourself to avoid conflict or keep the peace, it's a major red flag. This kind of environment breeds resentment and stifles authenticity, making it hard to truly connect with your partner. When you're more concerned with keeping them happy than being true to yourself, you're sacrificing too much. Constantly predicting their reactions can become mentally exhausting. This isn't about being considerate; it's about living in constant fear of triggering an unwanted response. Relationships are about sharing your life with someone, not tiptoeing around their sensitivities. If their mood dictates your behavior, it's time to reclaim your voice and stop living in a state of anxiety. Your friends can be your relationship barometer, offering insights you might overlook. If the people who've supported you through life's ups and downs have reservations about your partner, it's worth listening. According to psychologist Dr. Lisa Firestone, friends' opinions often highlight blind spots in your own perceptions. Don't dismiss their concerns outright; they might see the cracks forming before you do. Sure, you might think they don't see the whole picture, but ask yourself why their opinions are unanimous and unwavering. When your friends are vocal about their concerns, they're doing it because they care about you, not to sabotage your happiness. Your social circle should be a safe haven, and if your partner disrupts that, it's a sign worth heeding. Ultimately, a partner who isolates you from your friends is more controlling than loving. If 'I'm sorry' has become your mantra, something's off balance. When apologies come more naturally than expressions of joy, it's a sign you're taking on too much blame. A healthy relationship thrives on mutual respect and understanding, not one-sided guilt trips. If you find yourself constantly in the wrong, it might be time to question why that is. Consider how often you've had to say sorry for things you didn't even cause. This isn't about accountability; it's about a power dynamic that feels skewed. A relationship should be a partnership with shared responsibility, not a blame game. If you're always in the wrong, it's likely because the scales are tipped in their favor, not because you're inherently flawed. Daydreaming about the future is a cornerstone of a healthy relationship. If envisioning the years to come feels more like a chore than an adventure, you might be wasting your time. Relationship expert Dr. Gary Chapman suggests that shared goals and dreams are vital for a lasting connection. If your partner isn't part of your future plans, it's a sign that your heart is already halfway out the door. When you're together and the future comes up, does it feel more like a debate than a discussion? If your dreams are diverging instead of converging, it's a glaring sign that you're not on the same page. Relationships are about building something together, not just coasting along. If the thought of forever with them feels like a sentence instead of a journey, it's time to reconsider what you're in it for. Introducing your partner to friends and family should be a joyous occasion, not a cause for panic. If your partner shows little interest in forming connections with your loved ones, it's a problem. A partner who's genuinely invested in your life will want to know the people who shaped you. When they dismiss or merely tolerate your circle, your relationship becomes insular and limited. A lack of effort in this area can become a major source of tension. It's not about forcing friendships but showing a willingness to engage with the people who matter to you. If every interaction is a struggle or feels obligatory, it's an indicator of deeper issues. Your partner's disinterest in your world is a reflection of their investment in you, and it's not looking good. If you can't count on your partner to follow through, it's more than just an inconvenience. Constantly letting you down chips away at trust, the foundation of any solid relationship. When you're left questioning their word or scrambling to pick up the pieces, it's not just frustrating; it's telling. Reliability is about more than showing up; it's about being someone you can depend on. Consider how often you've had to make contingency plans because their promises fell through. A partner who consistently leaves you hanging is showing you where their priorities lie. You deserve someone who respects your time and values your trust. If they can't be depended on for the little things, how can you rely on them for the big ones? In a balanced relationship, both partners' issues matter equally. If your partner's problems always take center stage, you're in danger of becoming their emotional crutch. While it's natural to support one another, it should never become one-sided. When their drama overshadows your life, it's a sign that your needs are being sidelined. Reflect on how often your concerns are dismissed or downplayed in favor of theirs. Relationships are about give and take, not one person's constant need for validation or support. Your voice deserves to be heard as much as theirs, and your issues should be met with empathy, not overshadowed by their saga. If it feels like you're always the listener and never the speaker, it's time to reevaluate the dynamic. Holding out for someone to change is a gamble that rarely pays off. When 'I hope they'll change' becomes your relationship mantra, it's a glaring red flag. Change is possible, but only when someone truly wants it for themselves, not because you're wishing it into existence. If you're clinging to potential rather than reality, you're setting yourself up for disappointment. Consider how many times you've heard promises of change without real action to back them up. If your relationship feels like a series of empty promises and unfulfilled potential, it's time to face the truth. The person in front of you is who they are, not who you wish they'd be. Holding your breath for transformation is only wasting your time, not theirs. If you feel like your needs are an afterthought, you're not in a reciprocal relationship. Constantly putting your partner's needs above your own isn't noble; it's self-neglect. A healthy partnership requires both parties to be attuned to each other's desires and necessities. When your needs are consistently sidelined, it's a sign that you're undervaluing yourself. Think about how often you've compromised without them reciprocating. Self-sacrifice shouldn't be a continuous state, especially when it's not mutually shared. Your needs are valid, and a relationship should be a balanced exchange, not a one-sided transaction. If you're always giving and rarely receiving, it's time to reassess what you're truly getting out of this. If your partner can't stop bringing up their ex, it's more than just an annoyance. An ex should be a chapter in their past, not a ghost lingering in your present. When their history becomes a continuous topic of conversation, it's a sign that they're not entirely over it. You deserve someone who's fully invested in you, not someone still entangled in past relationships. Consider how often their ex comes up in conversation or is used as a point of comparison. This isn't about jealousy; it's about being with someone who's emotionally available. If they're still hung up on someone else, they're not fully open to creating a future with you. Don't settle for being the rebound when you should be the main event. Growth should be a natural part of any relationship. If you feel stagnant while your partner seems content with the status quo, it's a red flag. A thriving relationship encourages mutual development and evolution. When only one of you is pushing for growth, it creates a lopsided dynamic that can't sustain over time. Reflect on how often you've encouraged self-improvement only to be met with apathy. Growth doesn't have to be monumental, but it should be shared. If you're the only one reaching for more, it's a sign that your paths are diverging. Don't allow their complacency to hinder your potential; you deserve to soar, not to be grounded. Your intuition is a powerful guide, often seeing through the haze when your mind can't. If your gut is signaling distress, it's time to pay attention. Ignoring that inner voice often leads to regret, as it tends to pick up on subtleties your conscious mind overlooks. Trust it when it tells you something's off; it's rarely wrong. Think about the last time your gut feeling steered you right, despite external pressures. If you're constantly battling that internal warning system, it's a sign that the relationship isn't aligning with your true self. Relationships should feel right, not like a game of convincing yourself they are. Don't ignore your instincts; they're the compass to your well-being.
CNET
20 hours ago
- Health
- CNET
Struggling With Hair Loss? This New Prescription Gummy Could Help Regrow It
You've tried the serums, the vitamins and the topical solutions. But have you tried a prescription gummy for hair loss? Hers, a telehealth company that provides online healthcare services and products for women, announced the launch of its Biotin plus Minoxidil Gummy, the first-of-its-kind prescription gummy formulated to support hair regrowth. Available through this gummy combines prescription-strength minoxidil, the only FDA-approved ingredient for female hair loss, with biotin, a popular vitamin for supporting healthy skin, hair and nails. Minoxidil is clinically proven to regrow thicker, fuller hair in three to six months (based on studies of oral minoxidil up to 2.5 mg per day at various doses). It's the first prescription hair regrowth gummy to hit the market, and it offers women a more convenient way to stay consistent with treatment, something Hers chief medical officer and OB-GYN Dr. Jessica Shepherd says is often overlooked in traditional regimens. "The gummy is a once-daily dose that's designed to help women stick to their prescribed hair regimens as deemed clinically necessary by their provider to address their individual needs," she says. Hers Shepherd told CNET that everything about the product, from the packaging to the vegan formula to the taste (green apple flavor) and texture, was crafted with women's preferences in mind. The goal is a treatment that feels more like a self-care ritual than a chore. Why a gummy? Unlike traditional pills or topicals, the Biotin plus Minoxidil Gummy was formulated with adherence in mind. The proprietary compounded formula allows providers to personalize each prescription to individual needs, including adjusting the dosage to minimize side effects or combining multiple ingredients to tackle various concerns simultaneously. "By leveraging the power of personalization, we're making it possible for women to access treatment designed to address their individual needs for their unique body, lifestyle and goals. This is the benefit of compounding," says Shepherd. How much does it cost, and where can I get it? The Biotin plus Minoxidil Gummy is available through Hers after a virtual consultation with one of its licensed providers. Each prescription is customized based on your unique hair loss patterns and goals. Hers strives to offer patients affordable treatments without insurance (no insurance is accepted), and the gummies start at $35 per month. To learn more or schedule a consultation, visit
