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Washington Post
11 hours ago
- Entertainment
- Washington Post
What parents need to know about ‘Elio,' ‘Bride Hard' and more
Age 6+ Moments of peril in heartfelt adventure about a lonely boy. Pixar's animated adventure follows a lonely orphaned boy named Elio (voiced by Yonas Kibreab) who is accidentally mistaken for Earth's leader by a council of peace-loving aliens. The movie is mostly light in tone but does include moments of peril and sci-fi violence. Kids intimidate Elio and nearly punch him; two clone characters disintegrate (not graphically); a menacing alien leader threatens destruction and takes Elio hostage; characters get caught in a dangerous debris field in space; and, at one point, a sympathetic figure seems like he might not make it. Characters also argue and face danger, and sneak into places they're not supposed to be in. Elio's deceased parents are referenced, and characters occasionally use words like 'stupid' and 'butt.' Positive messages about friendship, parenthood, emotional vulnerability and self-acceptance are woven throughout, and both the voice cast and characters offer diverse representation. (99 minutes)
Yahoo
a day ago
- Lifestyle
- Yahoo
I'm 39 and never wear makeup. I want to be accepted the way I naturally look.
Shubhangini Prakash is a 39-year-old whose mother never encouraged her to wear makeup. She dabbled with eyeliner and eye shadow in college, but has chosen not to wear makeup anymore. She thinks that going makeup-free makes her feel like her real self all the time. This as-told-to essay is based on a conversation with Shubhangini Prakash, founder and CEO of skincare line Feather and Bone. When I was around 6, my mom told me lipstick would stain my lips. I had asked her to help me put some on for the school play, and she refused. Instead, I asked my neighbor's mom to do it for me. The next morning, I looked in the mirror and remembered thinking my lips had changed color. I'm not sure whether they had, but it confirmed that my mom had been right. I never wore makeup again until I left the UK to start college in the US. In the UK, I felt confident without makeup, but not in the States. To fit in at college, I started wearing eye shadow and eyeliner. It felt like I was becoming a different character, not myself. I also found the products irritated my eyes. Since then, I've rarely worn makeup, including for my two weddings. When I entered the workforce at 22, I stopped wearing makeup unless I was messing around and being silly with my friends. I wore nothing except a little lip gloss at work, out socializing, or on dates. I wanted to be accepted and respected for who I was, not because of the makeup put on my skin. On nights at bars with my friends, I didn't get the same attention as other women with dolled-up faces. I couldn't compete, but I would not wear makeup — I didn't feel 100% like myself with it on. I wanted to find a romantic partner who liked me, not some made-up version of me. If men don't have to wear makeup to attract a woman, why should a woman spend hours on her makeup for a man? I wanted to be seen as equal to a man, and not wearing makeup has become a way to channel that desire for equality. At 30, I was getting ready to launch my business, and a makeup artist offered to provide me with a full makeover for a commercial I was working on. I'd never had a full face of makeup in my life. Walking around afterward, with concealer, foundation, blush, eyeliner, mascara, and lipstick, I got all the looks from people I passed. It confirmed what I knew to be true — that makeup could get me noticed. Rather than making me want to wear it more, the makeover made me want to wear makeup even less. That boost of confidence I had from a face full of makeup was the confidence I wanted with my natural face. Shortly after, I met the man who would become my husband at a rave. He was attracted to me without makeup and liked me for who I really was. I was the first woman he dated who didn't wear makeup. He never gave me slack for it, even though he was occasionally surprised that I didn't wear it when we were going out. At our Christian wedding, I barely wore any makeup, and even at my traditional Indian wedding, I kept telling the person doing my makeup it was all too much. I wanted to look in the mirror and see myself on one of the most important days of my life. As I get older, I know I won't change my mind about makeup. Antiaging culture takes away the beauty of aging, even though it is just a normal process of life. I am wiser now. I know more. I make better decisions. I am proof of a life lived, and my skin shows that. I don't have to accept what media and society tell me growing old looks like. My skin will sag and become wrinkly, and that's OK. We're not immortal. I now have two sons, but if I ever have a daughter, I want to pass on what I inherited from my mom — a confidence and acceptance of my own, raw self, makeup-free. Read the original article on Business Insider
News.com.au
a day ago
- Entertainment
- News.com.au
Khloé Kardashian recalls how critics called her a ‘traitor' after weight-loss journey
During the latest episode of her Khloé in Wonder Land podcast on Wednesday, the reality TV star and guest Whitney Simmons, discussed the impact of their fitness and wellbeing journeys. Reflecting on when she first shed some pounds, Khloé described how some online trolls called her a "traitor to the bigger community'. ''I'm not myself, I'm not funny anymore, I'm not all the things that I still am at my core,'" she recounted being told, according to a preview obtained by People. However, Khloé eventually "came to terms" with the idea that she can't "make everyone happy.'
Daily Mail
2 days ago
- Entertainment
- Daily Mail
Sarah Jessica Parker 'sobbed' after 'cruel' comments about her appearance during Sex and the City
At the height of her Sex and the City heyday circa 1998-2004, Sarah Jessica Parker 'was not prepared' for the onslaught of 'cruel' criticism she received about her appearance. 'I think just discussions of my physical person [were the hardest],' the 60-year-old former child star told Call Her Daddy on Wednesday. 'Like, stuff that I couldn't change and wouldn't change and had never considered changing, or even still after hearing something that was like, "What? Somebody would say that?" — even still, no interest in changing it.' Sarah wondered if her critics 'would say that to my face' if they had a real conversation. 'I didn't feel like I could sit in a room and someone would say to me, "You're really unattractive,"' Parker mused. 'And then I could say, "Wow. Well, first of all, that's hard to hear. But second of all, why do you seem angry about it? Or why do you feel it's necessary to comment?"' At the height of her Sex and the City heyday circa 1998-2004, Sarah Jessica Parker 'was not prepared' for the onslaught of 'cruel' criticism she received about her appearance (pictured in 2002) The 60-year-old former child star told Call Her Daddy on Wednesday: 'I think just discussions of my physical person [were the hardest]. Like, stuff that I couldn't change and wouldn't change and had never considered changing, or even still after hearing something that was like, "What? Somebody would say that?" — even still, no interest in changing it' The two-time Emmy winner hit a breaking point when she read 'something really mean' about how she looked in a magazine, which she called 'a kick in the rubber parts.' 'I called two of my friends, who happened to be male because I knew that they might know about it. And I was just like sobbing because it felt so purposeful,' Sarah recalled. 'And I think that's the only time I really cried about it. I think it was just an accumulation of maybe a season of that kind of commentary, which no one was trying to make me aware of it, but it gets [back to you].' Before producing and starring in Darren Star's small-screen adaptation of Candace Bushnell's newspaper column and 1996 book anthology, Parker noted that 'there was no chatter about me. There was just my work.' 'It was the personal stuff that I was really not prepared for,' the Ohio-born actress explained. 'At that time, I thought I was a fairly confident I think it really comes into question and is tested when you're kind of filleted in a better for those kinds of experiences, but not all of us are good at it right away.' Sex and the City - which was iconic yet culturally Caucasian - aired for six seasons spanning on HBO and spawned two terrible films Sex and the City (2008) and Sex and the City 2 (2010) as well as a forgettable prequel, The CW's The Carrie Diaries (2013–14). Catch more of SJP as wealthy widowed author Carrie Bradshaw in the 12-episode third season of Michael Patrick King's SATC continuation And Just Like That, which airs Thursdays on HBO/Max The Emmy-winning series borrowed heavily from its predecessor about four female friends living in a big city - NBC sitcom The Golden Girls (1985-1992) - even copying the character archetypes of a funny one, a smart one, a naïve one, and a slut. Sarah admitted she hasn't even seen Michael Patrick King's dismally-reviewed continuation And Just Like That, despite being an executive producer, which most fans hate-watch due to their devotion for Sex and the City. Catch more of Parker as wealthy widowed author Carrie Bradshaw in the 12-episode third season of Michael Patrick King's SATC continuation And Just Like That, which airs Thursdays on HBO Max. Variety reported that the SJP Collection founder, Cynthia Nixon, and Kristin Davis all earned $10M paychecks to executive produce and star in season one, but it's unclear if they've since received raises.
The Guardian
5 days ago
- Health
- The Guardian
The one change that worked: I stood up to my inner critic and I've never looked back
I wish I could say that if my teenage self had a window to the future, she would be proud of the person I've become. But, in truth, I think she would dislike me just as much as she disliked herself. Back then, I could have spoken for hours about all of the reasons I hated the person I was. And that wasn't something I believed would change. I used to be all-consumed by my inner critic: the critical voice in my head was much louder than any rational thoughts or words of affirmation others offered me. I had an eating disorder. Each day was a monotonous cycle of exercising as much as possible and eating as little as I could get away with. I was miserable, and it was all because of the cage I'd built within my own mind. This is not something unique to people with eating disorders. I've realised, after sharing my story online, that so many people have this unkind voice in their heads, critiquing their every move. And that when you start to talk back, your life improves in ways you wouldn't expect. Before I knew I was controlled by my inner critic, I took everything it said as fact. My self-esteem was so low. I'd stand in front of the mirror and the barrage of insults would begin: ugly, fat, useless, unlovable, spotty, disgusting. If someone had said these words to me every day, I'm sure I would have recognised it as bullying. But coming from my own mind, they felt justified and accurate. But one day, standing in front of my bedroom mirror, I realised this was just a voice. This voice that took such pleasure in reminding me how utterly worthless I was, wasn't actually my own. It was a separate entity to me. Suddenly, everything changed. Every time I noticed my inner critic calling me lazy and unproductive, I started to stick up for myself. I would tell myself: 'Actually, I don't need to be doing anything now, I deserve to rest'. If it called me ugly, I would remind myself that I didn't need to be so hard on myself. For the last five years, I tried hard to say nice things about myself in my head until neutral self-talk felt normal. It hurts to know how unkind to myself I was. I feel incredibly sad for that version of me. While I occasionally still have to remind myself not to be self-critical, my inner critic has slipped away. Therapy and journalling has helped me to find joy in self-acceptance. I can make a mistake and instead of berating myself, I can reassure myself. I no longer shrink myself to please my inner critic, I have learned to stand up for myself. I know now that just because you think something that doesn't make it true. How to Talk to Yourself by Ro Mitchell is published by Bluebird. To support the Guardian order your copy at Delivery charges may apply. In the US, help is available at or by calling ANAD's eating disorders hotline at 800-375-7767. In the UK, Beat can be contacted on 0808-801-0677. In Australia, the Butterfly Foundation is at 1800 33 4673. Other international helplines can be found at Eating Disorder Hope
