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Retirement Doesn't Always Go As Planned—Here's 4 Ways To Pivot
Plans change. Your retirement date doesn't always arrive when—or how—you expect it.
Retirement planning is built on numbers—not just dollars, but dates. When will I retire? At what age can I afford to stop working? Increasingly, longevity risk isn't just about outliving your money. It's also about the risk that the year you planned to retire might not be yours to decide.
When I was a young analyst, I worked alongside a senior engineer who embodied every engineer cliché: black glasses, short-sleeve dress shirt with a tie that was too short, and a pocket protector filled with mechanical pencils. He radiated the calm of someone who had everything calculated and figured out.
Above his desk, pinned to a bulletin board, was a scrap of graph paper with a number scribbled on it: 11896.
After a few weeks, my curiosity got the better of me; I finally asked him what it meant.
Looking over his glasses at the graph paper, he said, 'That,' he said with a grin, 'is my retirement date.'
Fresh out of grad school, I couldn't imagine retirement, let alone planning for it more than a decade away. But he had it all mapped out—visualized and posted like a mission launch.
There's something admirable about that kind of certainty. That kind of certainty makes spreadsheets hum, financial planners smile, and it is a fixed objective that can be quantified with precision. Millions of people have a version of it: a date circled, an age bookmarked, or a vague plan to 'retire at 65.' But for all the timelines, charts, and calculators we throw at retirement, reality often has other plans for our plan.
Over the years, I've learned something that every future retiree, adult child, advisor, or employer should remember:
Retirement doesn't always arrive when—or how—you expect it.
We've been taught to view retirement as a milestone you arrive at right on schedule. A cultural clock chimes at 65, and off you go to travel, golf, or take up pickleball. But in reality, retirement looks a lot more like air travel—subject to delays, getting bumped, reroutes, bad weather, and last-minute changes.
According to the Employee Benefit Research Institute (EBRI), nearly half (47.5%) of retirees exit the workforce sooner than planned—a figure that's held remarkably steady for over 15 years. Why?
Retirement, it turns out, isn't a clean exit. It's messy, often emotional, and frequently out of your control.
Early retirement sounds like a dream come true—until it isn't.
Someone who retires at 59 instead of 65 loses six prime years of earning, saving, and compounding. They may be forced to tap assets early, turning a 30-year financial plan into a 40-year cash flow puzzle.
But beyond the numbers lies something deeper: the emotional transition from 'I am' to 'I was.' Friday at 4:59 PM, you're a mechanic, a teacher, a lawyer, a CEO. At 5:01 PM, you're retired. And that shift—so simple in language—can shake the core of identity.
Too many retirees go from professional purpose to passive drift. One report indicates that 28% of retirees experience depression, often fueled by a loss of structure, social interaction, and relevance.
On the flip side, some delay retirement for good reasons: financial necessity, meaning, or social connection. According to Gallup, the average expected retirement age has risen from 60 in 1995 to 66 today. But the actual retirement age still hovers around 62, suggesting that plans and reality remain out of sync.
For many, staying in the workforce is the new safety net. However, that strategy comes with its own risks, including health surprises, employer buyouts, family caregiving, or burnout. Not every 'I'll work a few more years' plan ends on your terms.
The smartest strategy? Ditch the illusion of precision. Embrace adaptability.
Here are four pivots that can make retirement planning more resilient:
My engineer friend with '11896' taped to the wall had a plan. But as most of us have learned, life introduces variables that our spreadsheets don't anticipate.
That's why modern retirement planning must go beyond projections and drawdowns. It has to account for uncertainty, longer life, changing identities, and the need for flexibility and resilience.
Whether you retire earlier, later, or somewhere in between, one truth remains:
The plan will change.
The question is: Will you be ready for the retirement that shows up?
