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Atlantic
15-06-2025
- General
- Atlantic
Being a Dad Is About More Than Being Around
In the summer of 1968, a few months after the Tet Offensive shook America's confidence in the Vietnam War, my father deployed for his second combat tour. He left behind six children and his wife of 21 years. Over the following year, he commanded an infantry brigade in combat, earned his third and fourth Silver Stars for valor, and all but secured his promotion to brigadier general. It was a career-defining tour. But for my siblings and me, 9,000 miles away, it was also a year without a dad at home. My mother carried the family with extraordinary strength. But we missed out on things: Dad wasn't around to watch baseball or coach basketball. The familiar figure renovating the old house my parents had bought after his first tour in Vietnam simply wasn't there. Parts of my father's life did not go smoothly. He made mistakes—as humans do. And if you assessed him strictly on his 'dad duties,' you may have found him lacking. Yet when he died at 89 and our family buried him at Arlington National Cemetery, I knew I'd had the best father I could have asked for. For as long as I can remember, I wanted to be like him. He was steady under pressure, humble in success, principled always. His example gave me something to aim for—even if I never quite hit the mark. This is what the best of dads do for us. They set the mark. Today we talk a lot about the importance of fathers taking on an equal role in parenting responsibilities, and that's a good thing. But we don't talk enough about the power of example. Fathers are more than disciplinarians, providers, or part-time coaches. They are living, breathing case studies in character, and whether they're physically present or not, their influence seeps into their children. Children are observant. Even when they don't have the words, they are watching. They see how we, as parents, treat people. They hear what we say when the person being discussed isn't in the room. They notice when our words don't match our behavior. And quietly, over the years, they begin to understand what character really looks like. We tend to default to simpler measures: Did you get to the game on time? Did you plan the vacation? Did you take the photo? Those things matter too, of course, but they are incomplete. If we want our children to understand courage, we must demonstrate it. If we want them to value humility, we must practice it. These aren't messages delivered in a single conversation. They're impressions formed over a lifetime. That's why the responsibilities of fatherhood extend far beyond the household. Who we are in our community, in our professions, under pressure—that's what counts. When our external behaviors contradict what we preach at home, we can't expect our children to absorb the better version. They will inherit the whole. This is not a permission slip to skip bedtime stories or miss first steps. The presence of a parent matters. But what matters more, and carries further, is the parent's character. Character is what follows our children when they are alone, unsure, or tested; it becomes the compass they refer to when we're not around to offer directions. As I reflect on my own failings as a dad, what I hope I offered most is not memories but modeling. I tried to live my values. I tried to be the same man in uniform as I was at home. That's what I learned from my own father. The day my dad died, he had four grandsons serving in Afghanistan. They weren't their grandfather, or their respective fathers, but each understood the sacrifice they were making. Their own children lost out on some things, but received the gift of example in return. This Father's Day, I propose a broader definition of what it means to celebrate fathers. Let's celebrate those who lead lives worth emulating, even when they're not in the room. We don't need perfect fathers. But we do need honest ones. Consistent ones. Men of character who, even in their absence, remain guiding stars.
Yahoo
11-06-2025
- Entertainment
- Yahoo
Fashion influencer who criticized Trump's style draws the attention of DHS after revealing he's an undocumented immigrant
Derek Guy, the popular men's tailoring influencer known for critiquing Donald Trump and JD Vance's clothing, has revealed that he is an undocumented migrant to the United States – and could therefore be at risk of being deported. In a lengthy post on X over the weekend, Guy, who has mercilessly ridiculed the length of the president's trademark red ties and the cut of his deputy's suits, explained the moving circumstances behind his family's arrival in the U.S. 'My family escaped Vietnam after the Tet Offensive and went through an arduous journey that eventually landed them in the Canada,' he wrote. 'My father worked there for a time as a janitor; my mother, a secretary. When work fell through, my dad was offered to work with his sister in the United States, so he went, as our family needed money. 'He ended up staying in the US longer than he was supposed to – not knowing immigration laws – and asked my mom to come be with him. Of course, she went and carried me over the border while I was still a baby.' Guy concluded: 'I'm still unsure whether we technically broke an immigration law. The border between Canada and the United States was pretty porous (as it is today, for the most part). 'But either way, since I came here without legal documentation, I eventually fell into the category of being an undocumented immigrant.' Alarmingly, the Department of Homeland Security (DHS) responded to another tweet about Guy's admission by posting a meme from the children's film Spy Kids 2: Island of Lost Dreams (2002) in which the character Juni Cortez's high-tech glasses zoom in on a target, implying that they are looking into the situation. The Independent has contacted the DHS for clarification on Guy's situation. Vance also replied with a meme taken from a movie from more than 20 years ago, in his case a GIF of Jack Nicholson grinning and nodding enthusiastically from the 2003 comedy Anger Management, which might equally be interpreted as a veiled threat. Guy, who is notoriously publicity shy and seldom photographed, made light of the tension on X, posting some of the media reaction to his revelation on Monday and commenting: 'Honestly didn't expect this is what would happen when I joined a menswear forum 15 years ago.' On Tuesday, he joked: 'Just walked by {Immigration and Customs Enforcement] ICE but I was wearing slim chinos and dress sneakers so they suspected nothing.' Guy's tweets have repeatedly mocked Trump and Vance's sartorial choices, as well as other members of the administration like Stephen Miller, Pete Hegseth and Robert F Kennedy Jr and MAGA acolytes like Charlie Kirk. In late May, he derided the president and Kirk's appearances in the Oval Office, noting that the latter's 'shrunken and soft' threads left him looking 'like he was dunked into water while wearing the suit, put through a tumble dry, and then dunked again.' Teasing Vance over his St Patrick's Day socks in March, he observed that the veep's 'pants are too slim, hence why they ride up on him like this.' Last year, he rubbished Miller's obsequious claim that Trump is America's most stylish president, listing John F Kennedy, Jimmy Carter, Ronald Reagan and George HW Bush as four occupants of the White House who were more smartly turned out than the current president, in his opinion. The controversy comes at a time when the Trump administration is drastically speeding up its crackdown on illegal immigration, sparking five days of protests in Los Angeles that have since spread to other major American cities.
New York Post
11-06-2025
- Politics
- New York Post
Snarky fashion influencer who regularly mocks Trump, Vance's outfits admits he's in US illegally, DHS responds
A snarky fashion influencer who regularly mocks President Trump's outfits has posted a now-viral confessional about being in the US illegally — with the Department of Homeland Security signaling it is aware and zeroing in on the critic. Derek Guy disclosed his 'lack of legal immigration' in an X post seen nearly 5 million times as he criticized the Trump administration's deportation crackdown. The fashion enthusiast, who boasts millions of followers on Instagram and X, admitted he came to the US as a baby — via Canada — after his parents fled Vietnam following the Tet Offensive. 5 Trump and Vance walk to welcome Ohio State University NCAA champs. REUTERS 5 Derek Green, a prominent critic on X, reveals he's in the US illegally. 'I'm still unsure whether we technically broke an immigration law. The border between Canada and the United States was pretty porous (as it is today, for the most part). But either way, since I came here without legal documentation, I eventually fell into the category of being an undocumented immigrant,' he wrote. 5 Derek Guy posts a lengthy tweet about his citizenship. 'The lack of legal immigration has totally shaped my life. It has made every interaction with the law much scarier. It has shaped which opportunities I could or could not get. It has taken an emotional toll, as this legal issue hangs over your head like a black cloud.' His lengthy post quickly attracted DHS' attention — with the department responding by posting a cryptic 'Spy Kids' GIF of a pair of covert glasses zooming in. 5 The Department of Homeland Security responded with a cryptic post this week after fashion critic Derek Guy admitted he's in the US illegally. That post has been seen 20 million times by Wednesday morning. Vice President JD Vance — another regular target of the fashion influencer — also chimed in after scores of people started suggesting he should take revenge and deport him. 5 JD Vance responds to Derek Guy admitting he's in the US illegally. Vance fired back with a meme of actor Jack Nicholson grinning and shaking his head — a move many interpreted as a sign the veep wanted to boot him from the country. Guy claimed to be unconcerned, however — replying with a pic of Vance in a tight suit while writing: 'I think i can outrun you in these clothes.'
Irish Daily Star
11-06-2025
- Politics
- Irish Daily Star
JD Vance uses Jack Nicholson meme in apparent threatening deportation post
Users on X tagged Vance under the man's post in an apparent attempt to get the menswear influencer deported from the United States, a country the man says he's been in since he was a "baby" Vice President JD Vance appeared to threaten to deport a man who runs a popular social media account focused on menswear after the user shared a post detailing his experience living as an undocumented immigrant in the United States. On X (formerly Twitter), the user, known as "Derek guy," posted a lengthy message encouraging people not to view undocumented immigrants as "MS-13 members", as the Trump administration has often tried to characterize them, but rather see them as "neighbors" such as himself. In response to this, users on X tagged Vance, telling the vice president he has the "opportunity to do the funniest thing ever," suggesting that he work to deport the "derek guy." Vance responded with a meme of actor Jack Nicholson from the movie Anger Management shaking his head, saying, "Yes," menacingly. "Derek guy," also known as "menswear guy," largely uses his account to share his thoughts on current pop culture and clothing trends. He has previously taken shots at Vance over his clothing choices, including saying that his pants are "too slim," jackets that "don't hug him very well," and a tie that was "a distraction." But on Monday, "Derek guy" broke from his usual content to recount his own experiences living as an undocumented immigrant in the U.S., saying that his mother brought him to the country from Canada when he was a "baby." He said that his parents fled their home in Vietnam after the Tet Offensive during the Vietnam War. The family first came to Canada, but his father ultimately sought work in the U.S., with him and his mother following behind him shortly after. "Since I came here without legal documentation, I eventually fell into the category of being an undocumented immigrant. Yet, I've been in the United States since I was a baby. My identity and roots are very much based in this country, no different from anyone else," the menswear guru wrote on X. "The lack of legal immigration has totally shaped my life. It has made every interaction with the law much scarier. It has shaped which opportunities I could or could not get. It has taken an emotional toll, as this legal issue hangs over your head like a black cloud," he added. His comments come amid the ongoing protests and ICE raids in Southern California, as Los Angeles moves into a fourth night of protests, with the Trump administration deploying 4,000 National Guardsmen and 700 active duty Marines to the city. "Derek guy" called the current immigration sweeps "inhumane" and encouraged those in opposition to them to do more to support pro-immigration groups.
Vancouver Sun
10-06-2025
- Entertainment
- Vancouver Sun
Is JD Vance about to deport a Canadian-born fashion writer who is an undocumented U.S. immigrant?
An American-based Canadian men's fashion writer who shared his story of being an undocumented immigrant in the U.S. put himself in the crosshairs of conservative critics questioning his legal status to remain in the country, including perhaps U.S. Vice-President JD Vance. In response to the heated L.A. protests over Immigration and Customs Enforcement actions in the city, Derek Guy, who works out of San Francisco, made a candid post on X detailing his experiences. I debated whether to share my story on here, but I guess I will. I think there's an idea out there that millions of violent criminals are pouring across the border, carrying machetes and drugs, looking to harm Americans. Certainly, while some people fall into that category, the… After the 1968 Tet Offensive in Vietnam and following an 'arduous journey,' his father and mother landed in Canada, where they found work as a janitor and secretary, respectively, and where Guy was born. Work eventually dried up, so his father went across the border to work with a sister in the U.S. 'He ended up staying in the US longer than he was supposed to — not knowing immigration laws — and asked my mom to come be with him. Of course, she went and carried me over the border while I was still a baby,' Guy wrote, noting he remains unclear about whether laws were broken when the trio crossed a border he considers to be still mostly 'porous.' 'But either way, since I came here without legal documentation, I eventually fell into the category of being an undocumented immigrant. Yet, I've been in the United States since I was a baby. My identity and roots are very much based in this country, no different from anyone else.' Many people commenting on his post felt differently, with several calling for his deportation. Eventually, X user @growing_daniel suggested Vance had 'the opportunity to do the funniest thing ever,' to which the VP reacted with a gif of actor Jack Nicholson nodding in a scene from The Departed. 'I think I can outrun you in these clothes,' Guy wrote, resharing Vance's post, accompanied by two photos of the vice-president. Guy, a freelancer who contributes to the likes of the New York Times and Esquire, has previously critiqued Vance's wardrobe choices on his X account, which has 1.3 million followers. Shortly after the former Ohio senator joined Trump's team last July, Guy opined that 'Vance's jackets don't hug him very well.' In summarizing a thread on tie choices during the vice-presidential debate with Minnesota Governor Tim Walz last fall, he wrote that Vance's 'was a distraction' and likened it to 'something you'd wear to summer garden parties.' At tonight's debate though, Vance's tie was a distraction, while Walz's tie helped viewers focus on his message. At something as serious as a national debate, Vance would have been better served by a conservative business tie, not something you'd wear to summer garden parties. In March, he responded to a user wondering why Vance's pants were so short, saying a bespoke tailor he spoke to suggested the pants 'are too slim, hence why they ride up on him like this.' i spoke to a bespoke tailor about this and he confirm: jd vance's pants are too slim, hence why they ride up on him like this In the remainder of his post about L.A., Guy said the best solution is 'systemic' and emphasized a necessity for citizenship paths for non-violent people such as himself and others, who 'are good, honest people.' 'Ultimately, I hope me sharing this story helps push back against the idea that all undocumented immigrants are MS-13 members. I know many people in my position and they are all like your neighbors.' Our website is the place for the latest breaking news, exclusive scoops, longreads and provocative commentary. Please bookmark and sign up for our daily newsletter, Posted, here .
