
A closet of one's own
We all need privacy – to misspeak, to err, to be intimate
To hold one opinion but voice another, is this inauthentic? To conduct oneself as if one is being permanently surveilled, does that help democratic life? In her book Strangers and Intimates: The Rise and Fall of Private Life, British sociologist Tiffany Jenkins traverses centuries, to explain how the private and the public developed into two distinct realms, and how this historic achievement is now in mortal danger.
Spark of conscience | From the Protestant iconoclasm of Martin Luther to the extensive adventurism of Henry VIII, the 16th century germinated the independence of 'inward things' from traditional authority. Hobbes's 1651 magnum opus Leviathan presented hypocrisy – the gap between public utterance and private belief – as key to protecting the social order from anarchy. The 1650 Toleration Act passed by Cromwell's parliament made strides towards making religion a private matter.
Age of separations | The first modern biography, Boswell's Life of Samuel Johnson (1791), the first modern autobiography, Rousseau's Confessions (1782), the first novel, Richardson's Pamela (1740), literacy rate for men in London approaching 80%, it was all of a piece with thinking for oneself. Simultaneous to the strengthening private sphere, was the rise of public life. Coffee houses were popping up everywhere. These were a male space, like the Atheninan agora. Male and female roles became sharply different. A woman effectively became her husband's property when she married.
In 1801 the first census rolled out after an acrimonious five-decade resistance that it would 'molest and perplex every single family in the kingdom'. Drawing the line between a public realm open to state intervention and a private domain beyond it became the question of the age.
Across the pond, the skepticism that met govt-led research was belied by the enthusiasm that met George Gallup, who founded his polling company in 1935. Americans liked answering questions about themselves and reading the results. As Kinsey discovered, they were also more than ready to share their sex 'histories'. Bernays' Propaganda (1928) proposed 'the engineering of consent', whereby these masses could be controlled by an 'invisible' govt, with insights from psychology and natural science.
The personal is the political | This was Betty Friedan, Kate Millett and other second-wave feminists' counter to the 'interior colonisation' of women. But politicising the private sphere also meant depoliticising the public sphere. Redirecting scrutiny from social and economic structures of society to personal relationships placed an intolerable burden on everyone involved in such political practice, the book argues.
Relatedly, Ruth Bader Ginsburg's criticism of the Roe vs Wade ruling was that abortion rights should not be a privacy issue but a matter of equal rights. Either way, the public-private separation forged in the 18th century weakened by the end of the 1970s.
Let's talk about sex | Monica Lewinsky's was the first massive news story to break online. The Kenneth Starr report was accessed by 20mn Americans within 48 hours of its release. Fast forward to the normalisation of Pornhub and OnlyFans as examples of 'creator economy'.
By now, threats to privacy are almost exclusively framed in terms of data and digital security. But, the book underlines, the protection of individual privacy ultimately depends on a clear boundary between private and public domains, which must be defended both online and offline. Strangers are not intimates. Why treat them like that? Protect your inner life instead.
Facebook Twitter Linkedin Email Disclaimer
Views expressed above are the author's own.
Hashtags

Try Our AI Features
Explore what Daily8 AI can do for you:
Comments
No comments yet...
Related Articles


India Gazette
3 hours ago
- India Gazette
Union Minister Jitendra Singh unveils ANI Chairman Prem Prakash's book 'History That India Ignored'
New Delhi [India], June 23 (ANI): Union Minister Jitendra Singh on Sunday unveiled 'History That India Ignored', a book authored by Asian News International (ANI) Chairman and veteran journalist Prem Prakash. Speaking at the launch event, Singh, Minister of State for Personnel, Public Grievances and Pensions, highlighted a passage from the book's preface regarding the Congress party's early political stance. 'Till 1930, the demand of the Congress Party was only for home rule under the status of a Dominion of the British Empire, with the British monarch appointing a Governor General,' he said. 'This is something which is going to trigger quite a few heads. In other words, however much the Congress Party might claim to be the torchbearer of India's freedom struggle, its freedom struggle, if at all, on record began only after 1930,' Singh said. The Union Minister said that Congress's entire span leading up to independence was only 17 years, of which 4 years were the Second World War. 'The entire span leading up to independence is only 17 years, out of which 4 years are the Second World War. The high point was the Quit India Movement of 1942, which means that for only one decade, the Congress Party was apparently active as freedom fighters. But the drum beating has successfully carried on for all of us a century now, and that is where the book's title finds its justification- 'History That India Ignored',' he said. Singh also drew attention to the book's focus on revolutionary freedom fighter Madan Lal Dhingra. 'I think the most telling revelation, or a lesser-known fact, brought to light by the author Prakash ji is that of Madan Lal Dhingra, who killed Curzon Wyllie on July 1, 1909, in London,' he said. Highlighting Dhingra's defiance during his trial, Singh said, 'During the trial, he refused to hire an advocate. He was sentenced to death, and when he was asked to make the last statement, he wrote: 'No English Court has the authority to arrest me... If it is patriotic for an Englishman to fight against the German if they were to occupy his country, then it is much more justifiable and patriotic in my case to fight against the English.'' He also criticised the Congress party for distancing itself from Dhingra. 'The most important fact is that the Congress Party passes a resolution condemning the Dhingra Act, dissociating itself from Dhingra and Gandhi ji also unfortunately does... None of his family members visited him in prison till he was hanged, and did not even claim his body... There was only one person who had the courage and conviction to visit him in jail and meet him, and his name was Veer Savarkar,' Singh said. Prem Prakash's book revisits the untold stories from the Indian freedom struggle that are not commonly known but essential for the spirit of India. (ANI)

Time of India
3 hours ago
- Time of India
'Not Our War': Trump's CLOSEST Ally 'Breaks Rank' On U.S. Attacks On Iran
The UK has distanced itself from direct involvement in the U.S. strikes on Iran's nuclear sites, clarifying that no British military support or bases, including Diego Garcia, were used. Prime Minister Keir Starmer reaffirmed Britain's stance that Iran must not obtain a nuclear weapon, while emphasizing the urgent need for de-escalation and diplomacy. Starmer offered the UK's help in mediating between Washington and Tehran, and confirmed that Britain has reinforced its military bases' defenses as a precaution. Read More


Mint
4 hours ago
- Mint
PM Keir Starmer urges British nationals in Israel to contact Foreign Office for evacuation flights
Keir Starmer has urged Britons to immediately make contact with the Foreign Office if any of the nationals are in Israel and the Occupied Palestinian Territories at the moment. This comes after the UK Government began planning for emergency evacuation flights to safely bring British nationals back to the country amid the escalating Iran-Israel conflict. The United States has now entered the Israel-Iran conflict with an armed response, hitting three nuclear facilities of Iran, which has worsened the situation. Amid this, Keir Starmer and the UK Government have taken note of the situation, and are working on starting evacuation flights early next week. 'I urge all citizens to make contact with the Foreign Office so that we can facilitate whatever support is needed," the UK Prime Minister was quoted as saying. 'Well, for British citizens, we've been saying for some time to register their presence. And so far as Israel is concerned, just as soon as we can get charter flights off, we will do so," Keir Starmer continued.