
I'd never paid a bill until my divorce at 57! Here's the vital advice I'd give every married woman...
A few months after my divorce, my mother asked me who my car insurer was. I just looked at her blankly. I didn't have car insurance, I hadn't got an MOT on my car – I later realised I didn't have home insurance either. None of it had crossed my mind. I was extraordinarily lucky nothing went wrong.
At the age of 57 I hadn't paid a household bill or had any handle on my finances since I had married almost 30 years earlier. Now divorced, I didn't have a clue where to start.

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