
I wed a Nigerian toyboy 43 years my junior – people think I'm ‘crazy', call me his ‘grandma' & say he's with me for cash
A 68-YEAR-OLD woman has revealed that she said 'I Do' with her Nigerian toyboy, who is 43 years her junior.
When Kay, 68, and Ablack, 25, first connected on Facebook, they had no idea that a simple social media like would lead to marriage.
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An age gap couple have candidly opened up about their unique relationship, which started from a Facebook like
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Ablack, 25, proposed to Kay, 68, just three days after meeting and he is now her fourth husband
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But Kay's toyboy has been accused of being with her for money and a Visa
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Despite this, Kay claimed that she has "never felt love like this before"
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But now, the couple have opened up on their unique relationship and explained how just three days after meeting in real life, Kay's toyboy popped the question.
Revealing all to
Opening up about how their relationship first blossomed, Kay recognised: "He liked something I posted. He went from somebody who liked my post to my very best friend, I could tell him everything. It just kept getting stronger and stronger."
After three failed marriages, Kay was initially 'very leery about being scammed' by the youngster.
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Not only was the mother called 'crazy' by many, but before long, the couple had tied the knot, with Ablack being Kay's fourth husband.
Despite falling in love, the couple constantly face judgement over their
But Kay beamed: 'I do not feel old when I'm around him. I feel very young, like a teenager.'
With Ablack based in Nigeria and Kay over in the US, the pair have had to make the relationship work with the geographical distance.
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However, Ablack knows that the pair are destined to be, as he acknowledged: "A prophet told me that I'm going to get married to a white woman and here she is.'
But although destiny brought them together, not everyone agrees with their relationship, as Ablack said, "Some people say, 'she's old enough to be your mum'. Some say, 'you're married to your grandma', 'she's too old for you'.
I'm 20 and my man is 63 - people say he looks like Shrek and I must be in it for the money, but I'd still love him if he was a cleaner
'Anywhere we go, people take pictures of us.'
Not only this, but people have even accused Ablack of getting 'married for a US
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Be careful girl. Scammers can be 'in love' too!
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Clearly unfazed by the judgement, Kay, who is often referred to as Ablack's 'sugar mummy', said: "I've never felt love like this before.
"This is the one I'm supposed to be with, I just had to wait a long time for him to be born.
'He treats me like a Queen. I'm his priority.'
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The Kardashian matriarch, 69, met her younger man, 44, at a mutual friend's 40th birthday party in Ibiza. They've been together since August 2014.
Sam & Aaron Taylor-Johnson - 23 years
The director, 57, and actor, 34, reportedly met at a film audition in 2009, and were married by 2012. The pair share two daughters and Sam has two children from a previous marriage.
Rosie-Huntington-Whiteley & Jason Statham - 20 years
The model, 37, started dating actor Jason, 57, in 2010. They were wed in 2016 and have since welcomed a son and a daughter together.
Catherine Zeta-Jones & Michael Douglas - 25 years
Catherine, 55, was introduced to Michael, 80, a film festival in 1996 and engaged three years later. Shortly after their engagement, the couple welcomed a son and married in 2000.
Social media users react
Social media users were left stunned by the couple's
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One person said: 'As a middle aged woman who's probably close to her age, this makes me uncomfortable.'
This is the one I'm supposed to be with, I just had to wait a long time for him to be born
Kay
Another added: 'The prophet"s name is Visa.'
A third warned: 'Be careful girl. Scammers can be 'in love' too!'
At the same time, someone else wrote: 'Hope she has a lot of money to feed his whole family, why else would a 25 year old be with a woman in her 60s.'
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