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A.I. Accelerates in Paris + Can A.I. Fix Your Love Life?

A.I. Accelerates in Paris + Can A.I. Fix Your Love Life?

New York Times14-02-2025

Kevin reports back from the A.I. Action Summit in Paris, where it was full speed ahead toward artificial general intelligence, with a conspicuous lack of action on the safety front. Also, Happy Valentine's Day! We're taking a look at A.I. on dating apps. First, our producer Rachel Cohn explains what happened when she applied all of the advice from Hinge's new Prompt Feedback tool to her dating profile. Then, we're joined by Hinge's founder and C.E.O., Justin McLeod, to discuss how he thinks A.I. can help users find love.
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